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AIBU to expect DP to initiate sex more than once a month

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Fiddlesticks8 · 10/08/2016 13:02

AIBU to expect DP to initiate sex more often? He rarely seems interested, falls into bed at night and starts snoring, when we've discussed it (rarely) he says he is genuinely tired and doesn't think about it much. It's like I'm not even on his radar. Whenever I Initiate it, he responds...but it seems begrudgingly. We are currently on holiday: no work stress, away from it all-but nothing. He makes me feel like a nymphomaniac!

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VestalVirgin · 11/08/2016 12:48

Well, apparently you have mismatched sex drives. You should discuss this with him openly, and if it is not a problem that can be solved, you'll have to separate.
I wouldn't want to have sex with someone who only participates "begrudgingly" ... that's rather close to rape.

You say it is like you are not even on his radar -. do you mean he ignores you completely? Or is it just that his not wanting sex makes you feel like that?

In short, YABU, you don't have a right to sex, and his initiating sex more often even though he doesn't want it, would not solve anything.

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