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However to get back into it after three months no sex...?!

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Pagetta · 01/04/2016 00:07

DH and I have been together years and always had v active sex life - since DS1 prob 1-2 times a week instead of 3-4 but always regular and varied etc..

I'm 29 wks pregnant now and with DS1 we still maintained a bit of a sex life throygh pregmancy, But with this pregnancy there's been loads of health scares since 20wk scan, and with FT busy Job, a toddler and an impending house move the last couple months I've just been exhausted and so very stressed and really not in the mood.
He's never once made an issue of it and we are still physically close in bed, but it's starting to bug me now - and my libido is coming back (some v naughty dreams!) But in the absence of getting drunk where do I find the confidence to make the moves when I'm the size of a whale and quite frankly have such tender boobs I can barely shower lol! It sounds ridiculous that I can't put the moves on my husband but this the longest we've ever been without sex and I feel like it's become a big deal :'/

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LogicalThinking · 01/04/2016 19:47

I think you really have to tell him either verbally or physically. It sounds like he is being as considerate as he can be so he's avoiding putting any pressure on you.

ALaughAMinute · 01/04/2016 21:08

Forget your fears about not feeling very confident (or possibly not very attractive to your husband?) and just touch him where he likes it and see how he responds. You might also want to tell him that your boobs are a bit tender at the moment so he 's extra gentle.

0phelia · 04/04/2016 21:15

Why not ask your DH to shower with you, get lathered up and hot, then suggest taking turns with erotic massage. This will help you both relax during a stressful time, boost your confidence surrounding your body and bring back intimacy.

Pagetta · 04/04/2016 21:35

Thank you all - I'll be honest we booked a night away and after being off the booze a glass of red wine was enough to get my confidence up to do some of the above - it did the trick!

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