My Sex life is dying out!

[Dalmatian2017]

I don't really know what to do. After my third child I didn't really feel like having sex as I was always so tired. Now I have more energy I'm more interested. When I try it on with DP he's always keen to begin with but he never is really hard and sex is a bit crap! He doesn't know how to please me but when I try and direct him he gets annoyed as he says in criticising him. I don't know what else to suggest as I probably have an orgasm with him about once every 15 times. And we only do stuff about 2-3 times a month!

To be fair it's me who is not normally up for it but I feel like I can't be bothered as I know it'll be crap!

he doesn't know how to please me and when I direct him he gets annoyed

Did I get that right?
Have you had 3 babies with this man or someone else?

You have mismatched libido. Yours higher than his, unless he is getting his kicks from elsewhere.

If he is really getting annoyed by your sexual needs... That does not sit right with sexual harmony. He needs to man up, and understand that he has responsibility to you as his life partner to keep you satisfied. You need to find a way to communicate this.

0phelia... really?

Imagine this was a man with the high sex drive, would your reply be the same?