Feeling frustrated...partner not quite 'hitting the spot'

[Ilovewoowoos]

As above really, sorry if this is TMI.

Partner and I have been together 3 years, he is 'the best I've ever had'if you like. He's selfless, caring and attentive in bed & I generally come every time we have sex/ foreplay. All good.

Except he's not the biggest normally this isn't a problem as he knows what to do IYSWIM, however every time we have sex lately and this includes last night, I kind of orgasm? Like a nice, almost clitoral orgasm but I can feel there is like a 'spot' (gspot maybe I don't know) about an inch away from where he is (again, sorry if TMI) that he's just not hitting and so when I come I'm still quite unsatisfied and am left feeling frustrated. It honestly is like an itch that he's just not scratching, arghhhh.

I don't actually know the point of me posting about this in here as its not going to change anything but I went to sleep last night feeling quite frustrated and wondered whether anyone else has experienced similar?

I know exactly what you mean, I have exactly the same feeling. You just need that bit deeper. Try lying on your back with your legs up over his shoulders, he can then get in really deep. Also is he any good with his fingers? I get a really intense orgasm that way.

Pillow under your bum? It will raise up the hips. Might be better if you lie face down on it and then he hits the front spot at an angle?

My last partner was not so well endowed and I orgasmed through a combination of penetration and clitoral masturbation. Legs over his shoulders whilst raised on a couple of pillows.

Do you think he would be up for trying something like this? You can still feel everything from the mans point of view apparently.

Maybe try going on top? You can get really deep then at your own control. Grinding your clit on him would help you get there.

he could fuck you with his gingers- as many as you want and can take p to his whole hand. As a lesbian who has lso had sex with men I can say that fingers can find the G Spot much more effectively than PIV

fingers, not gingers!