Noisy sex

[Scoopmuckdizzy]

Why the need to shout and scream through sex?

DH and I have a very healthy sex life and manage to keep it between ourselves so why does every person who moves into the house next door feel the need to scream and shout and bang? At 2am I actually felt like they were in my bedroom it was so loud. The noise woke 2yo DS who, after 2 hours of trying to settle back to sleep, is now downstairs with DH.

Is it that much better when it's loud? I just don't understand. The walls are pretty thin so they must know they can be heard? I don't want Teen DSCs to think it's us!

The woman who lived next door prior to this pair was unbelievably loud and when she moved out I thought nothing could be worse but I was clearly wrong.

However, why does anyone who is minding their own business in their own surroundings have to be disturbed by the noise of others, particularly when it's not necessary.

This is not a certain consequence of loud sex.

I can't stand men who make a lot of noise in bed, they sound so childish or teenage-boyish - even had one once (and I mean, once) who sort of whimpered! And he was a huge tall virile manly man. Quite the turn-off.

At any rate one should tone it down to suit one's surroundings. Doing anything loudly enough that neighbors can hear is rude and tacky.

My last partner used to turn me of yeling oh oh oh oh oh oh oh oh really loudly. I'm sure the neighbours could hear him.

Off yelling.

I love noisy sex and I make a lot of noise. I can't help it. I'm enjoying it and can't help it.

It's mostly attention seeking. There is no need to scream and shout.

I am noisy, but we live in a detached house where noise doesnt travel, so I presume it's OK.

It's funny the posts saying how much of a turn off people find it having a partner who is vocal/noisy. My DP is pretty quiet but on the rare times he isn't I find it a turn on. Different strokes and all that...

My neighbours were so loud, one evening, I thought he may actually be murdering his girlfriend. Nothing a polite conversation with him didn't sort however. Not heard a peep since, so proves they can do it quietly (or he did actually do her in) and still can just about maintain eye contact with him when our paths cross.

Our previous neighbours were screamers and it was awful. I had really had enough of it by the time we moved. It is completely unnecessary and outrageously rude.