Too much sex - is it sustainable?

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Have been in a relationship for a few months now. We are both 53 and I see him most weekends. We seem to spend our whole time in bed with amazing sex 4-5 times a day with no sign of reducing. Is this normal at our age as I've never experienced this before?

Sounds great

If it is normal for you then what is the problem. That is the great thing about getting a little bit older. You can shag all weekend if you wish.

Assuming no coercion, no chafing, no cystitis etc I would just enjoy it.

4 or 5 times a day is a lot for a man his age or any age for that matter. He's probably taking viagra or some other similar drug but as long as you are both enjoying it you have nothing to worry about.

ha ha ha ALaugh 53 is ancient!!!!

It's not a given he is using Viagra. My H doesn't and he could manage this level of activity

If you don't see each other in the week, I assume you are both conserving your energy

Is 4 or 5 times a day normal for a 53 year old then?

I'm the same age as the OP and soon to be divorced so if that's the case I can't wait to get back out there and start dating again.

4 or 5 times a day is normal when you're in the first stages of a relationship and don't want to keep your hands off each other.

I doubt it will be sustained if they move in together

I can certainly remember doing it 4 or 5 times a day when I was younger and when I first got married but I wouldn't have thought this was the norm (new relationship or not) for a man in his fifties. All I can say is I am very pleasantly surprised!

why ? What's up with men in their fifties ?

I remember 4 times a day when I met my partner

enjoy!

My partner is in his 50's. No viagra thank you very much. Its my 'hotness'

Sounds brilliant! My chap is much younger than that and can't sustain that level of 'activity'. Perhaps I need and older man to keep up with me

why ? What's up with men in their fifties ?

I've clearly been married too long. The most my STBXH could manage in recent years is twice a night so as a soon to be single woman this is all good news to me!

Doesn't it always start like this? It will tail off, inevitably.

ALaughAMinute - I'm recently divorced and this is the result of getting back out there!! very much recommended and wouldn't swap him for the world 😁

yay

No, don't swap him, I'd hang on to him if I were you!

I'm really pleased for you. Enjoy!

Absolutely, totally normal.
I have always gone for the older man, since my twenties. I've had my fair share of men in their 50's and they are mostly horny as hell.

I was in a 3 yr relationship with a 50yo (53yo) in my late 20's and we started our relationship doing the whole staying in bed all day thing. (5-6 times a day was not unusual)

Then we moved in together and sex drive was still very high! Every morning noon and night. (outside of his music carreer, and my design/create/sell work-life).

It's great when you find yourself in an explosive relationship like this.

Anyway I am now late 30's and my partner is early 50's. We have a son and planning another soon. He is extremely sexy and loves sex as much as men half his age. But he's more polite and genteel than men half his age lol!

I'm chuckling at the suggestion that a man in his 50s must be using viagra.

It's normal for the start and if it's just weekends can go on for a few year.. Like an extended honeymoon stage. Enjoy man.

*Can I just amend that to say mid thirties. Not late thirties, ehem.
Not that there's anything wrong with being late thirties... Ykwim.

Make the most of it, it sounds like you are having a great time!
It won't last forever but there's no reason why the quality shouldn't be maintained, even if the quantity reduces over time.

Enjoy it while it lasts! Sounds exhausting though :-)

Crikey..there is life after 40 something divorce then? Thanks for sharing showing off You've given me some hope as I think it will be a long time before I date again!

My partner is 56
It's great.
No Viagra.

mumtee oh yes there is life!