Worrying that I'm weird.. Or that he thinks I'm weird.

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I can't orgasm from piv alone. I need clitoral stimulation, usually in the form of a vibrator.. Problem is that sometimes it gets in the way during sex, and the sound can sometimes be .. Not off putting but I'd rather it wasn't there. I'd rather be able to orgasm through penetration, and worry that dp thinks I'm a freak (I don't think he does but..)
I'm sure he hasn't been with anyone else who can't orgasm without some stupid aid. And all the women in films who look like they can cum so easily just from being on top. I realise this is fake ! But I don't know if he believes it all.
I just want to orgasm without feeling the need to fake it.
I feel like a weirdo sometimes.
Is it quite a high % of women that can only orgasm this way or am I making it up?

Some but certainly not all can orgasm through piv alone. I would guess most women need a little external stimulation in order to climax.
You are not weird at all. If your partner reckons hes made all his previous partners orgasm through piv alone either he or they are lying!

Most studies indicate that the majority of women don't orgasm from PIV alone but need additional stimulation - you are normal, and in fact in the majority. And films aren't real - that's kind of the point of them. Superman can't really fly, the heroine doesn't really have a screaming multiple orgasm after two thrusts and no foreplay. Don't let them get to you.

So long as you're both enjoying yourselves, how that is achieved doesn't matter.

I'm a man and in my experience you are normal. Personally, I like my DW to use a vibrator in sex. Firstly, I find it a turn on to see her getting turned on by it and secondly it makes it easier for me to get her to climax so that I can get on and enjoy my bit (PIV).
We have used a Durex bullet during PIV - she on her back and me side ways in - it is really good if she uses the vibe on her clit while I thrust away - often a cum together result. I can also tell that she gets much more aroused with a vibe compared to anything I could do - which is a win/win for us.

You're definitely in the majority.

I would try a bullet if you're doing it missionary or you on top, and a rabbit or wand if you're doing it from behind. If you make enough noise you will drown out the buzzing

Seriously, you're not unusual at all, although your partner may have had previous partners who faked it (sadly many women still do.) Might be worth letting him use a vibrator on you - guide him how and where to put it, etc, so you get your orgasm first, then finish with PIV without distractions?

The only reason I don't fake it myself is because I actually want too enjoy myself aswell. I don't want to be left frustrated! :-/

Definitely not unusual. You are in the majority of women.
I often use a vibrator during PIV. Depending on what position we are in, either a bullet or my Mini Wand - Mini Wand is my preference and guarantees success, but it needs a bit more room than a little bullet.
DH loves it, and as with cosmic we can time it to orgasm together.

I don't need toys (hands are fine for me) but have climaxed through piv alone about five times in my whole life - you are definitely not weird.

Perfectly normal. I've not met many women who orgasm through piv, and definitely not all the time.

I read a book called She Comes First, which I passed on to my then other half, and it had a good way of explaining digital and oral techniques. It helped me to read it first so I could guide knowing what we were both aiming for. Might be worth a read? It would certainly dissipate your fears that most other woman are cumming away during thrusting piv and nowt else, like the movies.

This sounds exactly like me.