Noises/talking during sex

[lounear35]

Possibly TMI but.....
I'm vocal I make noise when I like it I give direction to what I like I moan I sometimes cry out, my new partner says I'm very noisy. What's acceptable ?

Depends. Are you in a detached property, or a semi/terrace? If you share adjoining walls with your neighbours, keep it down. Being woken by my NDN's screaming orgasms at 3am on a regular basis in a previous house was really bloody annoying.

Depends. Shouting 'woof' or 'Geronimo' might be off-putting.

Detached house lol
And no woofing etc
Just enjoyment. Last guy said he liked it and he felt good knowing he pleased me but now I'm thinking its to much lol

What's acceptable is going to vary between people and circumstances. It takes real effort for me to be completely quiet, but When Harry Met Sally style yessing doesn't work for me either.
A bit of communication is important - no need to be noisy.

I've met a few 'shouters' ... you can tell by what they shout what kind of orgasm they're having.

There's the 'positive' orgasm ... "Yes, yes, yes".
The 'negative' orgasm ... "No, no, no".
The 'religious' orgasm ... "Oh, God, oh Jesus".
And of course the 'fake' orgasm ... "Oh, Benedictine!" ;)

It's about what works for you (and him) I don't think the phrase "too" noisy or quiet is very helpful. There's no rule book (plenty of manuals tho). If it feels good why shouldn't you express your appreciation?

He didn't say too noisy- just very noisy. Does he want you to keep it down or was it just an observation?

If there's nobody to overhear then I think you should be as loud as you feel appropriate. If your partner's ears are bleeding, you might be a bit too loud

Coils just be an observation, especially if he is used to quiet women. I wouldn't worry too much.

Don't forget the sweary orgasm 'fuck, fuck, FUUUUUCK'

I like the intensity of complete silence from time to time but usually I'm one for plenty of soundtrack, or I would be, if any partners I ever had weren't slightly unnerved by it. I've learned to be a bit quieter so I suppose I think it's fair enough to dial down the volume if the guy finds it off-putting, and if he's mentioned it he probably does. But ask him - does he mean 'you were noisy, what a turnon' or 'my ears...'