I need sex!

[loveyoutothemoon]

I don't want/need a relationship but I really want some sex. Don't just want to fuck a stranger though.

So frustrated!

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I feel your pain. Even looking at the curtains turns me on.

Haha you ARE horny! When did you last get some action? For me it was June.

I'm at the point where I can't think about anything else. Dh hasn't been near me in 8 months. I'm climbing the walls.

A nice fit young man with an erection as hard as a broom handle...

I don't think you would have to look to hard (no pun intended) to find a man to give you a regular servicing. (Wink)

I went months and months without sex when DH was on ADs. I'm obese so on one ale would look twice at me. I was very frustrating and lonely, I think I switched my self off eventually.

Get yourself on OLD and find yourself a casual lover then. There are plenty of men who'd be delighted to oblige.

Yes, some blokes don't want to stick it anywhere either in with the very long drought of a sexless relationship.
OLD was a bit of a flop. Two wanted a bail out after previous relationships and one dropped me as she wanted to concentrate on marathon training. She had me transfixed for a while , well mesmerized really , I was fascinated how managed she to generate a perpetual drip at the end of nose. She never seemed to be aware of it.
Seriously just where does one meet a FWB?

not 'in with' but after the very long...

I would highly recommend OLD, when I finished with dh I joined POF as I was desperate for some fun (after a sexless marriage ), I was bombarded with offers and managed to get a couple regular FWB who were looking for the same thing, someone that pops over at the weekend for a few hours a couple of them have become good friends but we both make it clear that there's going to be no relationship. It was a bit scary at first but it has improved my confidence and I have done things I never dreamt of doing when I was in a relationship.

I've never had good sex so I feel your pain! I've got a friend who keeps offering so I might take him up on that pretty soon

Sorry about the hijack but can you say 'neverto' if you used some particular wording in your profile to indicate what you were seeking? Thanks

You just need to go on the right sites , I recommend POF and Tinder, you can state that your 'not looking for any kind of relationship' or 'just want to date' which is a huge hint that your just looking for a bit of casual fun or a FWB.

And keep your profile short and sweet ( no need to go into great detail about your life if your not looking for a relationship ).

Fantastic, will try these sites tonight.

Be prepared for loads of messages when you first sign up. You can afford to be a bit picky , I think I had around 30 messages in the first few days.

"looking for fun" in your profile is the generally accepted code phrase! On okcupid there's a specific "I'm looking for" option for casual sex.

I've had good results with specific hookup sites rather than trying to use dating sites.

Which sites, pocket?

I was hoping to find a decent fwb via PoF but it seems to be either flaky blokes or pervs, am getting to the point now where I just need some action.

My 12 month relationship ended in Sept. It was massive amounts of pure gorgeous sex for the entire time - and now I can't seem to cope without

What's happened to me?

Handywoman, what exactly are you looking for on PoF, a single man who is just looking for sex or someone married? I am just wondering what is accepted on these fb sites.

Definitely try Plenty of Fish. Before I was with DP, I had a FWB that I met on PoF. We would meet up regularly for a shag, it was awesome Had offers from a couple of others but didn't take them up. Have heard Tinder is good for casual shags.

I put 'just want to date' on my PoF profile. Went on my first date within a week or two of signing up. We'd both deleted our profiles by the following morning and have been inseparable ever since. Just be warned

You could try Adult Friend Finder or Illicit Encounters. Both have what you're looking for.

Same same same

Stopped sleeping with randoms / recycling the same 2-3 people as I've got the wee one to think of now.

Very rarely out,
Don't like having guys in the house cause of afore mentioned wee one.

NIGHTMARE

I know droughts are normal but I think I'll explode soon.

I miss that feeling when you totally connect with someone & just want to ruin them 24/7 & it's all consuming. it's been so long.

MEH

Problem with tinder / POF where I am is you end up recycling / chatting to people you already know.
Small ish area.
So it would be tricky to be transparent about your needs without pretty much advertising you just want one thing & one thing only !