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Do men really measure themselves? and if so why are they so deluded? my FWB sent a text mentioning 9 inches...don't get me wrong we have a good time and I'm not complaining, but there is no way he's that big.

I was tempted to reply asking if thst was the case who else was coming along, but didn't want to offend

Lol, just asked my dp if he's ever measured, he said he had when he was a teen to make sure it was a normal size just for clarity it is but think it's a very teenage boy thing to do rather than a grown up.

Dp measured When we were teens. Not since.

I think most men do, why wouldn't they? I would be curious if I had a penis .

I would imagine he has but I wouldn't think he's measured for quite some time.

He is about average, I've had bigger and smaller but then I am sure he's had previously partners who are bigger/smaller/tighter than me.

It doesn't matter how big they are what matters is how they use it!

Now that condoms come in different sizes and shapes it kind of makes sense for people to measure them. At theyfit they do 95 different sizes !

Yeah I think it's a teenage/young man thing. One ex of mine said that if you measure along the underside from where the balls start to hang, you can add about an extra inch on. Not sure how that's useful really!

If a guy told me he had 9 inches (before we met) it would really put me off. I'm quite intimidated by big dicks. And they so often seem to be attached to douchebags who think all they need to do is lie there and let you bounce up and down on it

I saw a meme somewhere that went along the lines of "the trouble with big dicks is that they are usually attached to bigger ones".

I suspect that most men have measured themselves during their teens, though how they take the measurement probably leads to a lot of exaggeration!

If all a man has to offer is a big cock, then sex is going to be pretty crap. Too big just hurts and what you do with it and how you behave in bed, is way more important. I've never been interested in size.

My wife once told me to give her 10'' and make her scream.

So I fucked her twice and made her watch The Shining.

:)

Actually, I really don't get this size thing, I guess I did get the tape measure out when I was young, to see if I'd been shortchanged or oversupplied, as one does. A good friend of mine recently met a fab guy, couple of dates, everything was perfect, lovely manners lovely looking, all his own teeth and hair, it was going well, until they had sex. Now Claire is very experienced, and knows what she likes and isn't at all shy about getting it, and she was devastated to realise this guy was tiny, 'smallest I've ever seen, shorter than my little finger, literally couldn't tell if it was in...'

So it was all over. Poor fella. He must have known, others must have said something, and he's got this problem for life. :( Surgery is terribly expensive and not going to get him up to a regular size.

My wife once told me to give her 10'' and make her scream.

So I fucked her twice and made her watch The Shining.

:)

Actually, I really don't get this size thing, I guess I did get the tape measure out when I was young, to see if I'd been shortchanged or oversupplied, as one does. A good friend of mine recently met a fab guy, couple of dates, everything was perfect, lovely manners lovely looking, all his own teeth and hair, it was going well, until they had sex. Now Claire is very experienced, and knows what she likes and isn't at all shy about getting it, and she was devastated to realise this guy was tiny, 'smallest I've ever seen, shorter than my little finger, literally couldn't tell if it was in...'

So it was all over. Poor fella. He must have known, others must have said something, and he's got this problem for life. :(

I would hate to be a man for this very reason! At least with boob size, there's something to suit everyone but with willy size, well, I hate to say it but to me, size matters.

And when I say size matters, I don't mean I want some ridiculously huge dong (in my experience, well endowed men think they can get away with making far less effort in the bedroom). But I've had similar experiences to your friends Eekaman, and it is sadly a letdown. Kind of like unwrapping a big fancily wrapped present only to find it's been padded with tissue paper and contains only a pencil!

I know it must be hard (ahem) for smaller men. But I'm talking about really small - I've found that the average size is perfectly fine and that it's what he does with it that counts - cliché but true!

Oh and 'smaller' men try much harder at foreplay...

Eekaman, I have just had a similar experience to your friend, just started seeing a guy, spent the day with him at the weekend and was slightly disappointed , I really like him though and I'm hoping he can make up for it in other areas, he has been cheated on by 2 previous partners ( wife's ) and I'm now wondering if this is why as it must be frustrating.

I think size does matter, which is why I'm sure most men measure to see if they are average or not.

I'm loving these replies. My guy is probably average sized (smaller than stbxh) but uses it well.... How he thinks he's 9 ins is a mystery.

I'm reminded of an old Dave Allen gag about women being rubbish at parking.... He said "But how do we expect them to judge distance when men tell them this is 6 inches....."

Nevergoing There's a really interesting article here about a guy with micropenis. Don't know if your guy has actual micropenis or just smaller than average but there might be something to glean from it.

Stank you, he's not tiny, apparently he has measured it at 7" but I find that hard to believe. I have started my own thread in hope to get some advice. Maybe it's just me that's big

Definitely important to me.

A long term XBF was probably average and it was not until I met a bit larger than average STBXH ( a bit larger so not the size of a baby) that I managed to climax by penetration only. Shame he was a total ass...

I know what you mean OP. I think a lot of men have got a very strange idea of what 8 inches is Sorry for TMI but the last guy I slept with was impressive girth wise but length wise was nothing special. Don't think I've ever had over a 6 incher!!

When I was young and inexperienced I came across a micropenis. We're talking 1" when erect. because of my lack of experience I was too embarrassed to enquire how to navigate it, so I just sort of pretended not to notice. I remember the condom sadly hanging off the end, like a windsock.

My DH has never measured , im tempted to measure him though lol but he isnt small id say around 7/8 inches and depending on position it can be quite painful aftwrwards I feel like ive been bruised inside I have been with someone who was pretty small I would say 4 inches and it was awful tbh . I dont think I could go with anyone who measured small then DH but u know what they say its not always aboutbthe size its what they do with it and all that ?

I'll hold my hands up and say as a teen I measured. It was only when I met my wife I was able to stop worrying about it