Greetings,
I am originally from Canada and have grown up in a school environment where the parents told the school when the child would be there and when the child would not be there. In this Country, I've come to realize that you have to 'ask' permission.
I found this out the hard way. We took my daughter out of reception for 1 week more during easter holidays to go on holidays. I notified the school by letter that we would be doing so but only found out upon our return that we would not have authorized absence from the school for doing so.
Each week since the holiday, we received threatening letters from the school stating that they were going to contact the Educational Welfare Officer to discuss attendance issues.
What is wrong with this system? Firstly, the school never once picked up the phone on a personal level to discuss this. Secondly, my daughter was 4 years old. It's not going to affect her in any way. In fact, she will learn more from experiencing another part of the world.
I've come to realize that my daughter represents only a number and status for the school and that the school misleads parents into thinking they actually 'care' about the child but never once sit down to talk to you about it but try to make you think you're a bad parent by threatening you.
I've never heard of anything so ridiculous in all my life. My daughter is healthy, happy, and leagues ahead of her classmates (not that it's a competition). But you can't write a letter telling me she's falling behind because of attendance when she is so far ahead. It only tells me that they don't even know her and that the attendance is not even about her.
Nevertheless, I endured endless letters and the year finally ended. Thankfully.
A new year now and I've again received another letter. This time, they will contact the Educational Welfare Officer. My daughter has been on/off ill since September and has missed 6 days of school (so they say). This doesn't seem like a lot to me considering all the flu bugs going around. I am thankful it's not been more than that.
I am tormented by these letters. It drives me crazy knowing that they don't even give a toss and treat me like I'm a careless parent.
It's annoying and totally disappointing to me that my daughter is part of a system that doesn't really care. It's just about numbers.
As it turns out, I have to take my daughter out of school for 2 weeks as my mother is unwell and I have to go home to Canada to see her. I don't know how to approach the school about this.
Any help guidance would be very much appreciated.
Thanks.