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Which school conundrum worries

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Dommy · 25/03/2010 14:48

Please direct me if this has come up before,but I am a Twickenham parent and having a bit of worrying time trying to decide which of our local shools will be best for our daughter. We've got good comprehensives on our doorstep and she's having tuition for state grammar and doing pretty well. We've looked around all relevant schools and she is very sure she wants to go to the local comp although she also liked the grammar.

The 'But' to my question is that we've been told she's winging it at school (yr 5) at the moment and always does the mimimum to get by. Luckily for her she does get good marks (apols if I sound like Mrs Boasty). So, I'm wondering if she should go to a school that will push her and not accept the first thing she scribbles down, and I do feel that's more likely at a state grammar though I might be wrong. But she's adamant the local comp is where she wants to be and I do worry she'll be miserable if we send her to a school with very high expectations - she usually shys away from competition. So I just dont know what to do for the best. What are your thoughts please?

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deaddei · 25/03/2010 15:28

Your dd would get on very well with my yr 6 ds!
Ds bright and "wings it". We did the selective grammar tuition, as most do round here, but when it was time to look at schools last October, he was adamant he wanted to go to boys comp- an improving one.
And that's where he's off- he is SO happy, and I think it's the right school for him. He would hate the pressure at grammar school and in hindsight, we would never have done the tests (what a wonderful thing hindsight is!)
You have got good comps in Twickenham- why make her miserable???

Dommy · 25/03/2010 16:12

Interesting Deaddei. Out of interest did you finish the tutoring and do the test, or give up at October once mind made up?

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MsDav · 25/03/2010 17:08

Would you be in catchment for Waldegrave? Great school, it was my daughter's first preference, sadly we were just too far to get in

Dommy · 25/03/2010 18:30

Yes we are, but she liked the Orleans

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deaddei · 25/03/2010 20:13

We gave ds the option and he carried on (liked the idea of day off school I think!)
Failed admirably! (he told us he deliberately put answers in wrong place for one school as he didn't want to risk being offered a place...)
I know he's going to the right school for him.

deaddei · 25/03/2010 20:13

Orleans is good by the way!

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