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'Occupation of main breadwinner' on Secondary Form??

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gingertoo · 03/03/2010 14:56

Just had the confirmation offer letter from the secondary school where my son will be going in September along with loads of forms to fill in - personal details / emergency contact / photo consent etc (they are very on the ball!)

I'm puzzled by one of the questions - 'Occupation of main breadwinner'.

Not puzzled by how to answer (!) but puzzled by why they would want / need to know...

Any ideas?

(It's a state faith secondary if that makes any difference!)

OP posts:
fembear · 05/03/2010 07:59

cat I speak from experience - most schools are rubbish at making the most of their parents skills and expertese. There might be the odd week-placement on work experience but that's about it.

The social engineering is not about entry to Secondary school. It is about noting, at the start of Secondary, where they are on the social scale and then seeing where they end up five or seven years down the line (when they becomme a NEET, go to Oxbridge or do something in between).

mattellie · 05/03/2010 16:47

I don?t necessarily have a problem with answering this sort of question, but I would want to know why the school require the information ? and no I don?t consider ?we need it for our records? to be an adequate reason

So OP definitely YANBU for asking the question.

MmeBlueberry, perhaps you could explain why a school needs this kind of information and for what purpose? How does knowing what job a parent has give the school a better picture of the child? Or are we to assume that the child is going to be treated differently if the ?breadwinner? is a road sweeper as opposed to, say, a lawyer??

MmeBlueberry · 05/03/2010 18:10

It's not a case of how the child is treated, but when they do something unexpected, you can use the big picture to perhaps explain it.

And it has nothing to do with street sweepers. Having parents who fly around the world or work 12 hour days in the city is arguably more challenging.

If you accept that schools are in loco parentis, then it is reasonable for schools to understand the home situation of the child.

TheFallenMadonna · 05/03/2010 18:15

Simply asking the occupation of the main breadwinner doesn't tell them that though MmeB. Knowing the jobtitle, and only the job title, of one parent (an only one parent!) does not in any way give a full picture of the child's circumstances.

It does put them into a socioeconomic group. I actually think that is useful data for a school to collect. But pretty sure that's what it's for.

MmeBlueberry · 05/03/2010 20:09

I wouldn't suggest that only finding out the occupation of the breadwinner is sufficient to build a picture of a child, but it is better than nothing.

TheFallenMadonna · 05/03/2010 20:24

So in the absence of other questions, it's likely that they wanted the information for reasons other than getting to know the child.

MmeBlueberry · 05/03/2010 20:30

We can only speculate on that given very limited and selective information from the OP.

All I know as a teacher, is that the more you know about a student's homelife, the better.

You can be either bold or wishy-washy about how you collect this info. I suggest bold - drinks evenings, coffee mornings, match teas, and outright asking them.

I don't really see the problem, or any reason to withhold the informatiom.

TheFallenMadonna · 05/03/2010 20:44

I wouldn't withold the information. I think the information that they are actually collecting with this question is useful. I think it about socioeconomic groups and representation rather than indivudual pupils though. And that might influence other people's feelings about whether or not they want to give the information.

MmeBlueberry · 05/03/2010 20:56

I can't think of my pupils as being in groups or part of a stereotype. They are always individuals to me.

There are just too many exceptions when you try to force someone into a group.

TheFallenMadonna · 05/03/2010 21:29

I wan't thinking useful for teachers. I was thinking for the school, for the LEA. Naturally the information isn't useful for individual students. As I've said.

Loshad · 05/03/2010 21:43

given the hostile reactions on here to this it's no wonder some of my students are so hostile to school - it is useful to know if a child comes from a struggling family and is intermittently in social care and likely to need extra support or a bit of leeway if being a little tricky in class as opposed to a child who is plain rude to you, but comes froma stable home background with a parent in employment. It's really in your child's benefit to work with the school and see them as partner's , no aggressors.

Loshad · 05/03/2010 21:46

not !!

fembear · 05/03/2010 23:00

Don't understand your point Loshad. The school could ask 'are one/both parents employed, and is it F/T or P/T'. Why ask specifically which occupation, and only ask about the main breadwinner, unless for social engineering purposes.

TheFallenMadonna · 05/03/2010 23:40

Or monitoring purposes. Social engineering implies they are going to do something with the information rather than just comapre it with previous years/other schools etc. The place is offered, and I can assure you we don;t set by parental occupation, so I doubt it is more than a data gathering exercise.

claig · 05/03/2010 23:58

I think gramercy and fembear may be on to something when they mention social engineering. Most advantageous occupation to state would probably be road sweeper

news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/education/6923772.stm

TheFallenMadonna · 06/03/2010 00:01

We have to monitor certain groups anyway. When we were OFSTEDed, one of the groups most closely tracked was those on free school meals. I have them idenitified in my performance management (not my choice).

claig · 06/03/2010 00:01

specific mention of occupation in the article

"Also, details of parental occupation, ethnic background and whether or not applicants have been in care will be shown to admission tutors ahead of the selection process, not after it is completed.
The middle classes are becoming the new whipping boys for 'New Labour'."

fembear · 06/03/2010 08:32

Sigh. Thank you claig. How come parents on this thread seem to understand this point but teachers don't?

The teachers at DD's school were clueless. Once DD was given some printout about herself and she asked what REFU meant. They told her it meant 'refugee'. I had to explain to her that actually it was 'refuse to say'.

treacletart · 06/03/2010 08:47

"breadwinner" seeems an oddly colloquial term to use on a form ...

claig · 06/03/2010 10:44

very good point treacletart, they have used the colloquial term 'breadwinner' intentionally in order to disguise the intrusive nature of the questioning and make it appear informal amd innocuous

mattellie · 06/03/2010 11:32

Loshad I don't think the hostility as you call it is aimed at schools, though. And certainly not at teachers. It's aimed at the seemingly never-ending desire of governments - and the current government in particular - to want to know every little detail about our lives.

MmeBlueberry has explained why it's useful for schools to have some knowledge of their pupils' home life, and I can absolutely see her point. But I'm still not convinced that a question about the parents' jobs fulfils this criterion - it may do in certain very specific instances, but not as a general catch-all query.

zanzibarmum · 06/03/2010 14:04

So it is alright for private schools to ask for parent's occupational status before admission (and even interview parents) but not for a state school to ask for occupational data after admission - certainly isn't illegal

Simple answer is if you don't like it put your name on a waiting list of another school.

As someone said school is not the enemy

gingertoo · 06/03/2010 14:20

Wow, this has got interesting since my op...

Just to clarify, I intend to answer the question and answer it honestly - just wondered why it was there. I have never been asked that before on any of the many school forms I have filled in over the years (for 3 DCs)

zanzibar - have no idea what is asked when you make an application to private school - have never done it so I can't make a comparision. Was not saying it was not alright to ask the question - was merely pondering why they should want to know....

OP posts:
bronze · 06/03/2010 14:23

We don't win our bread. We buy it!

fembear · 06/03/2010 14:52

I don't win it or buy it. I make my own.

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