Thank you so much for your responses - it really helps to have some down to earth views.
Her end of Yr 3 Sats were all 5s (the sheet doesn't say 5 what). Her progress report for March says Maths 5b, Science 5b and English 4a - so she seems to be going backwards on that one, even though its always been her best subject! Targets for end of KS3 are Maths 7C, Science 6b and English 6b. These don't seem challenging from what Roisin says. Homework is set regularly, but there doesn't seem to be any feedback, and there has not been any parents evening yet this year (I emailed about this and was told that it is at the end of June - seems a bit late in the year to be much good to me. What do you think?)
Roisin - just how did you manage to get your son into a school in the next town? tried, but failed.
The intake for the school is very mixed, and there is a sink estate nearby which feeds some very troubled and disruptive kids into the school (one stabbing and one near death experience with a bottle of vodka on a cold night in the park reported so far this year. The worst thing about that is that the kids friends left their unconscious mate rather than do something, and he would have died if it weren't for an early morning dog walker).
However, there are also some nice kids, but I worry about the lowest common denominator winning out, and teachers expectations being too low.
Cherryblossom, I have tried to get detailed information from the school both about leavers destinations and more information about the exam results. My husband thinks that as long as our dd is in the 30% that gets 5GCSEs what everyone else gets is immaterial. So I tried to get a breakdown of that 30%, i.e. did they all come away with 8 GCSES at good grades. So far I have not managed to get any data from them at all, and they seem to resent my asking.
The school is becoming an academy from Sept, as one of the named and shamed failing schools. The promised new building will help a lot, new uniforms are being proposed, and I assume there will be a shake up of discipline and curriculum. But the kids and teachers will still be the same.
As to expectations, at just 12 I'm not sure how many of her hopes are really mine that I have put into her mouth. She says that she would like to be an architect, but this will probably change over time. I would just like her to have the chance to go to University, I don't really care which one or what she studies. All I want is for doors to stay open for her, and not to limit her opportunities. I have no ambitions for her to be some super high flying international business woman, just to have an interesting career that she enjoys which brings in enough income to have a home of her own and be free of money worries. It may be tough at the top, but I think its a lot worse at the bottom . . .