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Your kid is leaving school, what are you buying their head of year?

31 replies

dewne · 31/05/2026 10:14

Especially if you regularly bought presents for the class teacher at primary school
Please show your working.

(NB I don't think any teachers should get or expect presents)

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SaulGood · 31/05/2026 18:45

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 31/05/2026 18:13

Why does it need to be via a gift instead of, ya know, saying thanks?

It doesn't need to be a gift. That's part of what makes it a gift after all, the choice to give it. Some people choose to do this. It's not a new edict.

Alouest · 31/05/2026 19:06

DD wrote the teachers she especially liked and who had gone above and beyond a thank you card. Other than that, nothing.

worrisomeasset · 31/05/2026 19:07

Muchtoomuchtodo · 31/05/2026 17:14

DS is in year 13 and he bought and wrote thank you cards individually to all of his teachers and form tutor. His messages were really thoughtful so I hope they were appreciated

I can assure you they were. I’m a primary teacher and an end of year note from a pupil or parent saying how much they’ve enjoyed being in my class is the best present a teacher can get (although a nice bottle of wine is a close second).

Funkylights · 01/06/2026 23:48

Yr11s giving teachers gifts themselves is not unusual

Unexpectedlysinglemum · Yesterday 00:36

We used to bring in bottles of wine and chocolate etc for form tutors at Xmas and end of year

Meadowfinch · Yesterday 00:55

My ds is finishing a'levels. I will buy his dt teacher a bottle of champagne. I've known her since he was 11 and I know she has gone over and above to support & encourage him with his NEA.
His physics and maths teachers will get bottles of red wine. He's on track for AAA thanks to their hard work.

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