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High School can yours run around at break times?

28 replies

purpleme12 · 16/04/2026 18:34

My child started high school in September

They're not allowed to run about even outside at break time or dinner time.

It's not that there is not enough space.

Is this a rule in general at high school? Or just my child's?

My child likes to be up doing stuff so it really helps her to run about so I think she misses that.

I hate that they have this rule

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WydeStrype · 16/04/2026 18:38

Yes. Ours have a massive field and are allowed to roam wide and free. A lot of mostly boys play football. They run loads of sporty lunchtime clubs too

Blueeberry · 16/04/2026 18:43

Ours encouraged it! Plenty of outdoor space for rugby, football etc practice

Tuuuuune · 16/04/2026 18:58

Yes definitely. And there are Astro pitches for sport.

Meadowfinch · 16/04/2026 19:00

Yes, ds's school has a large playground, and playing fields. Lunchtimes, there is usually football, basketball or rounders. They are expected to get some fresh air unless it's raining heavily or very cold.

OneTimeThingToday · 16/04/2026 19:05

They have staggered lunch and breaks, so need to be in the designated area, which includes the field in summer.

The can "sign out" sports equipment.

Last summer the boys got a week long football ban and the girls had a blast on the field with the balls!

purpleme12 · 16/04/2026 19:13

So it's not normal then

(There is a specific field for sports but that is used for actual sports/sports clubs, not where they spend their break/dinner

I want to feed back about this

I really feel it's detrimental to my child that she can't run about. She has to sit and be cooped up all the time in school

But I don't know how to phrase it so it sounds right and I'll be listened to, if there's even any chance of being listened to

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Reallywhatsthat · 16/04/2026 19:16

It’s very poor that, certainly at my school there are loads of spaces for running around, ball games etc at break and lunch.
I think you could address several issues, physical fitness, easier to concentrate in class after a movement break, the importance of exercise on mental health, all things a school should be trying to improve.

purpleme12 · 16/04/2026 19:19

Reallywhatsthat · 16/04/2026 19:16

It’s very poor that, certainly at my school there are loads of spaces for running around, ball games etc at break and lunch.
I think you could address several issues, physical fitness, easier to concentrate in class after a movement break, the importance of exercise on mental health, all things a school should be trying to improve.

Thanks good ideas

Think I will do this

I kind of asummed it was normal

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WonderingWanda · 16/04/2026 19:26

That's crazy. My last school used to actively encourage it, kids could borrow skipping ropes, hoops, balls etc.

purpleme12 · 16/04/2026 19:30

It was great at primary school. It's the absolute opposite now

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purpleme12 · 16/04/2026 19:33

Unless they'll come back saying children can have exercise at dinner by doing the sports clubs.... But that's completely different to me.

You should be able to run about in normal break times to me

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OneTimeThingToday · 16/04/2026 19:34

I would start by asking why they cant. Could be noise (especially if there are staggered breaks), space, time etc.

purpleme12 · 16/04/2026 19:38

OneTimeThingToday · 16/04/2026 19:34

I would start by asking why they cant. Could be noise (especially if there are staggered breaks), space, time etc.

So you think I should just say my child says this and can you tell me why?

Before I say anything about this?

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purpleme12 · 16/04/2026 19:39

I mean if they give their reasons, should I still email back with why I think it's bad?

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SooooAIBU · 16/04/2026 20:10

They can on the field and it’s actively encouraged. They’re not allowed to on the paved areas.

cancancan · 16/04/2026 21:43

My DD is in primary school and is not allowed to run at break times.
absolutely ridiculous rule if you ask me.

I work in a secondary school and we allow students on the field at break and there are no rules they cannot run about but I rarely see any of them running. Sadly once they get to secondary the running and playing tends to stop.

purpleme12 · 16/04/2026 21:48

cancancan · 16/04/2026 21:43

My DD is in primary school and is not allowed to run at break times.
absolutely ridiculous rule if you ask me.

I work in a secondary school and we allow students on the field at break and there are no rules they cannot run about but I rarely see any of them running. Sadly once they get to secondary the running and playing tends to stop.

Wow that is really bad of primary school 😔

It is sad that it tends to stop 😔

But even to have it not banned would be great

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Funkylights · 16/04/2026 23:27

Ours are allowed to play sports on the Astro and do what the like in the wider grounds

herbalteabag · 16/04/2026 23:30

Yes. Mine has a huge field where they can do what they like. My son used to play football mostly,

onlytherain · 16/04/2026 23:36

This might be helpful:
www.nhs.uk/live-well/exercise/physical-activity-guidelines-children-and-young-people/

ednakenneth · 17/04/2026 19:07

I have worked in high schools and most teenagers don't want to run around at breaks. They can go to clubs if the school run them which I think most teachers don't want to as it's their time to chill.
Why doesn't she just ask the school if there are any lunchtime clubs she can go to?
High school ain't primary school and what they did at primary school is very different now they are becoming young adults.

purpleme12 · 17/04/2026 19:12

Well I accept that a lot might not run about.
But she does want to run/be active/do a bit of gymnastics/something that doesn't involve sitting or standing around. And either way I believe they should have that option.

I have tried to encourage clubs because I do think that would be good for her but unfortunately I don't think her friends go to any and it's a confidence thing. But that's not actually what I'm talking about though. I think you shouldn't be forbidden from being active in the normal field or wherever you have break time.

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purpleme12 · 17/04/2026 19:18

Although most of the replies above make it sound like the children are still running about/being active at break time at their schools

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Reallywhatsthat · 17/04/2026 20:36

Yeah, they still run around loads at ours. All years tbh, even the sixth formers like to play during the summer and early autumn months

purpleme12 · 17/04/2026 21:55

I'm going to email about it

Sadly I don't have much faith that I'll make a difference 😔

But I feel I should shouldn't I

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