@MissRB When it comes to Oxbridge or other top universities, the type of school (independent vs state) is usually not the deciding factor. Universities mainly look at academic performance, admissions tests, interviews, and genuine interest in the subject.
Independent schools sometimes send more students to Oxbridge, but that can also be related to preparation and cohort size. For example, last year Henrietta Barnett Grammar School sent 34 students to Oxbridge, and around 20% of City of London Girls students went to Oxbridge. Since City has a smaller year group, I think that percentage is actually very strong.
Independent schools also tend to have strong preparation systems, experienced teachers, and more structured guidance for applications and interviews. So the difference is usually more about preparation and support rather than any direct preference from universities.
Personally, I also think students benefit a lot from the networks and opportunities available in independent schools-this is something I experienced myself.
For us, what matters most is not only grades or future jobs, but also the environment and the opportunities a school provides. The overall atmosphere, resources, and the kind of peer group and encouragement a child receives can make a big difference in a child’s development.
Both options are very good, and you may well be right that in some cases certain companies prefer candidates who come from state schools. However, my personal preference is to choose an environment that can provide my child with every opportunity and resources they might need and support their development in the best possible way.