Thank you for your comments, I've not been on here for a week, as so much was going on.
We've still not applied to any other schools, but DD has had her meeting with the head of sixth form and he said she has the necessary LAGs. Maybe it's a precarious situation, but she will need the necessary grades for what she wants to do anyway. She could apply to a more 'lenient' school, but I fear we have missed out (she goes to a grammar, I assumed the secondaries had the same grade boundaries, but they don't).
Reading about the leaver's hoodies, we have ordered ours, despite having a sixth form, and they don't have them for Y13s, but I only know about ours.
DD is really difficult. She's been doing the CGP 10 minute tests in Maths, Biology, Chemistry and Physics. I've been making her do two a night, as she had her final Drama performance last week (now it's just the exam), she also had to hand in her Engineering practical and then the NEA for Engineering. The next thing is Spanish speaking, so a lot of actual GCSE work has been going on, now we can crack on.
I know I sound utterly pathetic, but it's a long time since DS did his GCSEs (in 2008), so I feel totally lost. Everyone else's child seems to be doing tons of revision. DD does do a lot in her room, but because I can't see it, because I'm not 'controlling/overseeing' it, I feel I am failing her, but she is resistant to me trying to tell her what to do. I don't want to burden, but I can't help but compare with my friend's son, who goes to a secondary, but has been revising everyday since September, only having Christmas Day off.
She does really well on the CGP tests, getting 100%, except in one Maths test in the half-term holidays, where she didn't do as well. She explained that she hadn't been taught graphs yet, but I panicked (I do have MH problems, so panicking is something I'm trying to address). She has now done them and did two graph tests last night and got them all right.
My stepson is coming this weekend for a week (he is also 34, like my son), I am really worried that this will stop DD from revising.
Should they be doing past papers from every day at the end of this week onward? DD said that she found something called 'active recall' and thinks that is better, but I guess I hear about past papers and think they should be doing lots every day?