DS has a conditional offer from LAE, but he's not sure about it (and neither am I). His current school are extremely supportive, know him well and really want him to stay on, bending over backwards for him. Unfortunately they don't offer his favourite subject at A level. They have offered to timetable it into mock exams/ predicted grades etc if he is taught externally. He is already quite advanced in the subject and I think could manage learning online.
LAE might push him more, but will be much less nurturing, and he'll be just one of many talented kids. It will push him more in some ways but may also dent his confidence. There is also about 45 min to 1 hour travel time if you include walking to station from our house.
Just to complicate matters, his twin is staying at current school and I think it may benefit her if he's not around as, even if they do different subjects, she can compare and feel a bit 'second class'. If he wasn't around, it may be better for her self confidence.
Can anyone offer any thoughts or wisdom on any aspects if you've been through any of these issues, or know someone who has?