My daughter is first on the waiting list for an oversubscribed secondary school. I know that no one can tell me one way or another but the uncertainty is driving me slightly mad and I am wondering how likely it is a place will come up before September. Although she's first on the list, the year group is currently one over, meaning two places have to come free in order for her to get one. Year group intake is around 350, it's a big school.
What's driving me mad is not knowing whether we should just proceed as normal with the school that she HAS a place at. When do I buy uniform, and what do I do with it if she then gets a place at this preferred school? Do I send her for transition days even though we're all hoping she won't go there? I am imagining this going on into August or even September, when I expect it's quite likely that perhaps a couple of kids won't take their place. But in the meantime, we could be moved down the waiting list if there are successful appeals or other late applications with higher priority than us. So there is just no way of knowing.
I feel like we're very likely to get a place at some point, but I don't know how long my nerves will hold out and when I will feel like we need to get uniform and be prepared for Option 2. It's so stressful!