I have always made a big thing with my children about doing their best, and it doesn't matter what result they get so long as it was the best they could do. Well, today my year 7 dd got a prize for being the only one in her year to get a 1 for effort in all her subjects (they are marked 1-4 every term for effort, achievement and organization) She is very pleased, but said "It'll make me look like a boffin" I said I thought that 1s for achievement were more boffinish, but she and her friend both said very definitely that effort was boffininish because you could theoretically get 1s for achievement without trying at all! Do your children feel like this - that achievement is cool but effort isn"t?