Ds is in year 7 and has been delayed in his development since birth. He was diagnosed with global development delay as a baby, then mild learning disabilities, then moderate learning disabilities. He learnt to read in lockdown (year 2/3) and learnt to write his name in year 3. He got an ehcp when he was in year 3. His school reports have always said working towards expectations in most areas.
Writing has always been his biggest struggle. Even now his writing is illegible and he often doesn't put spaces between words never mind punctuation. He had a scribe for year 6 sats and suddenly he was doing really well. He didn't pass the teacher assessed writing part but he just about passed everything else.
At secondary school he has been given a lot of help. He has been put in a tutor group where his tutor is a trained senco (although he isn't the official senco for the school, someone else does that full time) and he has a 1-1 helper who has been amazing with him. He is now at age related expectations for most subjects and greater depth for science. He is still at working towards for art and pe.
The senco is now saying that he doesn't have moderate learning disabilities because he is at age related expectations for most subjects.
Is that right? Not wanting to be negative but I think if they took away his support he would really struggle again.
His handwriting is still like a child in year 1 would write, although over the years he has managed to get his letters smaller and stay on the lines. The letters are often not recognisable, there is no punctuation and often no spaces between words either. On the computer he is better because you can see which letters are which but there is still no punctuation and most of the words aren't spelled correctly.
Apart from his writing the main comments on his report is that he struggles to focus. Sometimes he can be really organised but others really not. He has brothers with autism and adhd but he doesn't show any signs of autism although he is quite literal, e.g. they are told at school they can always email the staff with any problems or queries so he now emails the head teacher to tell her if he will be missing school for a dentist appointment even though we have said we have told the school office and he can tell his tutor if he wants but he doesn't need to email the head. He is very popular at school and very kind to others. He is quite lively compared to his peers but I put that down to his development delay.
I'm wondering if he maybe has something like dyslexia but I wouldn't have a clue how to find out.
I am concerned that if his diagnosis is wrong then I will be supporting him wrong as well. I want to support him to get the best out of his education but I want to do it right. Also I really struggled at school until I finally got diagnosed with dyslexia at university and then I suddenly started to do loads better with support. So I'm always concerned about ds losing his support at school.