Our local superselectives are more competitive than Oxbridge! Seems like it anyway 🤔
We didn’t bother as we knew dd didn’t have the right temperament to sit doing extra homework. I think if I had started sooner when she was young and more malleable it might have been easier!
So friends all started their kids’ tutoring in Y4. That way you can ease off if they are doing really well.
Someone we knew added Saturday tutor groups too, in y5. Literally their kid did nothing else - no play dates, no sleepovers, only one sports club for 30 mins after school once a week. So sad! Don’t do that, obviously.
Oh and if you have time: teach your kid to play chess with you (NOT on a computer), logic puzzles, sudoku, crosswords, complex jigsaws, adult scrabble, card games, more difficult strategy board games like Santini, read widely and talk about books.
All good ways of getting brain juices flowing without feeling like hard work.