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Do your teens listen to music while studying?

32 replies

Righttoo · 08/09/2024 16:57

Just wondering as my ds like to listen to music on his phone/earphones. But I always used to find it distracting

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Seriously79 · 08/09/2024 17:08

Yes, and I'm baffled by it.

BumpyaDaisyevna · 08/09/2024 17:10

Yes.

So did I back in the dark ages when revising.

On my Sony Walkman! 🤣

Wigeon · 08/09/2024 17:23

Yes, don't understand how they can concentrate but they are doing well at school, so 🤷🏼‍♀️!

NewName24 · 08/09/2024 17:29

Yes.
As did I when I was a teen.
As I do now when wfh.

Not the radio, with the chatter, but background music, yes.

justonemoreuser · 08/09/2024 17:38

Yes, I do too. As long as it's just music, and music I've heard before, I don't find it distracting.

It's not like talking, or 'new' music I don't know?

itsgettingweird · 08/09/2024 17:39

My ds does.

I use to have the tv on in the background. If I'm at the computer at work I play music very quietly. It's not so much I listen to the music but rather some people don't work well in silence.

Righttoo · 08/09/2024 17:42

Ah ok. Thanks. Needed a sense check as wasn’t sure if I should insist he stops. Just at early stages of exam revision now and he is my eldest child

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Readinstead · 08/09/2024 17:45

No current teens, but I used to revise to music and my now adult dd had her headphones on when doing homework and/or revising to cut out the distractions.

Lucylaughing · 08/09/2024 17:53

I don't think you should insist he stops. I do all my best work with music on, working from home.

StMarieforme · 08/09/2024 17:56

61 a as bd I did and still do when wfh. 😊😊

FerminRomeroDeTorres · 08/09/2024 17:56

We discourage it most of the time, but sometimes they do. They never use headphones while studying, but occasionally have a speaker on with music while they are writing up notes during term time.

When it comes to actual revision closer to exams then it’s a hard no. Their schools actively discourage it too as they have noted that there is absolute silence in exam halls and they really have to learn to be able to concentrate in silence.

Other than studying, music is on in our home almost constantly during waking hours, but we do want to encourage a different mindset while studying, and with both DH and DS so easily distracted, we do think the practice of working in silence is good for them.

Carouselfish · 08/09/2024 17:57

I did but jazz not things with lyrics.

deplorabelle · 08/09/2024 18:03

Strangely I can't do music as I find it too emotionally distracting but spoken word is okay so long as it's quite slow paced and not too interesting. (A TV documentary where they go over old ground quite a lot and intercut it with moody B-roll. Radio is too talky normally, unless I'm not interested in the subject in the slightest).

Sometimes I actively need the chatter in the background to focus my brain

angelcake20 · 08/09/2024 18:06

I always did but studies show that you should not listen to music with lyrics.

wigywhoo · 08/09/2024 18:08

Yes, but classical
Music with no words!

finaGotpaid · 08/09/2024 18:11

My three all listened to music All have done extremely well with GCSE'S and AA*s at A Level

expiredplants · 08/09/2024 18:12

I find it much easier to concentrate with music on in the background, but it has to be mainly instrumental. I still do it now when I need to focus at work, and my teen does the same.

DelurkingAJ · 08/09/2024 18:12

I did, for all my A-levels. Did well enough to make Cambridge. Assuming they’re achieving I wouldn’t blink. If they’re struggling then it’s worth seeing if it’s causing a problem.

EternallyDelighted · 08/09/2024 18:13

Yes, they've always got their headphones on and work better with it (they have had no difficulty with the silence in exam rooms either with excellent results in GCSE and A levels). We never have music on generally in the house but they are free to listen as much as they like with headphones. I work better with talk in the background but low so I am not properly listening, just the sound of voices). Can't work to music though. Again I have no difficulty with silence im exam rooms though, it's hard to explain but it's a different type of focus.

Mandarinaduck · 08/09/2024 18:16

Doesn’t work for me but I know it works for a lot of people. I wouldn’t be laying down any rules about this as I think it could be counterproductive,

Jewel1968 · 08/09/2024 18:16

My very academic DD did and does. I encouraged by DSs to try it but they not keen. I used to when I was a teen and it deffo helped me.

I think the type of music matters. Helps with the retention of information.

celandiney · 08/09/2024 18:18

I always did - I can't concentrate in "silence", it never is truly silent, there is always something out there which can be a distraction, music helped me focus. ( I did v well in exams!)

mondaytosunday · 08/09/2024 18:30

Yes. It becomes a background noise - it's not like listening to a podcast.

Rory17384949 · 08/09/2024 20:15

People work in different ways. I always listen to music on headphones when I'm working and really want to focus, it just helps somehow.
I find people talking or tv really distracting though

afrikat · 08/09/2024 20:18

I always used to study with the TV on (something mindless and easy) and recently undertook an MBA and I did all my studying with The Office US in the background. I can't study in silence. Definitely don't make rules on this, some people's brains need the background noise to concentrate