My DD who is in Year 7 has done so well in her new secondary school. She comes home happy, grades are very good, teachers have good things to say about her and always never alone during break or lunch time. Just that, as a mother, I get a feeling that she has not made close friends. she is always with someone or the other and not in a constant group. She never gets invites to birthdays or play dates or shopping trips. She had one birthday since starting this school and no one wished her. She sees her friends posting pictures with others for their birthdays or outings but she is not bothered by any of it. She is actually least bothered by it all. I know she is not suppressing her feelings but inside me, as a mother I feel bad. I do not want to tell her or show it as she is happy and do not want her to feel bad. How can I help or should I leave it as long as she is not bothered. While in a school fair or while waiting for me to pick her up from school, she is always with some friends. She is never alone but I do not see that relationship outside school. Is it something I am blowing out of proportion or can I help her in anyway.