Hi, I'm looking to short list some schools in the South Bucks catchment for my child who is currently Year 4. My priorities are that it's mixed sex with excellent leadership and emphasis on the safety of all pupils over and above academic excellence. For reasons I won't get into on here it's important that the school has a strong anti bullying policy. I had occasion to drive past two schools in close proximity to each other recently. It was around the end of the school day and the difference in the behaviour of the children was stark. The first school's cohort was rowdy and disruptive both to each other and the local community; pushing and shoving each other. I could hear expletives being shouted and general bad and dangerous behaviour. A little further on and I passed the second school which is known for its excellent and vigilant leadership. The children were organising themselves in a reasonable and co-operative way. They were well behaved and looked like they respected themselves and others. Neither of these schools are in our catchment but it painted a vivid picture for me of the big difference in experience and outcomes for children based on where they go to school and with who. I would certainly not send my child to the former, no matter its academic achievements. All and any experiences and recommendations greatly appreciated. Many thanks. X