I was thinking a day or two a week when he would home school rather than be in school. They do 2-week timetables and I was looking for a day when there is no maths, English or the subjects he enjoys to select as the day at home. I could only find one day on both weeks that would fit.
I met with the SENCO in July, with a rep from the LA and the Head of Year. We talked about potential adaptations but nothing out in place when he started and I have not heard from the SENCO since. I’ve done everything so far - sent all his subject teachers his one page profile at start of term, requested he be shown where the inclusion centre is and given a pass to be allowed to go there. Asked for him to be moved away from pupils who trigger him (the one time I didn’t because I was conscious of how often I was contacting them, it resulted in the pupil goading my son so much that my son swore at him and got put into isolation for an hour.
My son needs a laptop for writing tasks - we have provided it and whilst some teachers allow him to use it, they’re not really set up for him using it and I have to figure out work arounds for it to work.
The school is an inclusive and supportive schools and all the teachers I’ve contacted have responded quickly and supportively, the only one I’ve not heard from is the SENCO and I imagine it’s because he’s so stretched. I’ve been told by someone outside school that they think I need to step back and let school do all the work I’m doing - but I don’t have faith that they will. Not because they don’t think it’s acceptable or worthwhile, but because they simply don’t have the resources and time to do so.
I tried contacting IPSEA but after hours hanging on the phone and after e-mailing being told I just had to wait for an appt to show on the website (it didn’t no matter how often I looked) I just don’t have the time to pursue it.
The reason I didn’t appeal the refusal to assess was because at the time I was putting all my effort into appealing his secondary school place. I tried to get him into our local secondary that is closest to us and all his friend have gone to, including his friend with same diagnoses but who has EHCP (he lives further away but got in sure to his EHCP) but appeal refused. 24th on waiting list last time I checked which was just before half term. So I didn’t just give up when we got the refusal to assess, I had just run out of everything, emotionally and physically. I have a stressful full time job and two other daughters to support, there is only so much one woman can do! He’s at a different school to his sisters as they are at an all girls school. I was also trying to get him into an independent school which was smaller and small class sizes but they turned him down as they were more bothered about their profit than children’s well-being.
Can you tag your EHCP thread so I can check it out? Just read that I can reapply for EHCP, another poster said that the restriction in reapplying seems to be if you’ve been assessed and they refuse to issue. But to do so I’d need to update his info, and presumably get school onside too.