Tormead parent of a number of years x 2 DD, and local resident. Tormead has been wonderful for my girls, in the Prep and in the Senior School. Prep school has a lovely family feeling, parents get on well, there is a good community spirit and the girls are all enabled to forge positive relationships with both each other and the staff. The teaching and learning has been great for us, and a number of friends (and parents who had DDs at other schools) moved their daughters to Tormead and rave about the chalk and cheese difference it has made - with Tormead being an overwhelmingly positive move for them.
We have a few years in the seniors too and my DD is happy and doing well. No talk of any school issues from her, our friends or in our whatsapp groups - just basic, normal day-to-day 'all part of growing up' stuff. Parents on the whole very happy with school's direction of travel. School is slowly growing, but not at the sacrifice of teaching, class sizes or space, with a clear investment in new teaching staff, facilities, etc. Excellent parent communications has been noticeable since the new Head arrived, which keeps parents in the loop - with a focus on academics (school does very well) whilst not losing sight of pastoral care, development/investment in educational facilities/sport and an enjoyable, well rounded school experience.
Only niggle is that the physical site space is smaller compared to other schools around, no rolling hills or castles, given its city centre location, and drop off can be busy with cars. But with it being in Guildford, most senior girls will use the buses, train, walk etc., with friends anyway and as they get into sixth form it gives them a chance to be more independent. Older (Sixth Form) girls also seems to be spending more time collaborating with RGS as well, which parents see as positive for those upper year groups.
Fundamentally we chose because of the happy, down to earth kids, not a hot house, but academics certainly not forgotten (but not GHS, if that's your aim). This is still the case as far as we can tell.
Hope that helps! Obviously we're happy campers, but most parents do, on the whole, seem to be. Any questions do PM me.