My dd 11 missed
y3-4 transition as lockdown
4-5 as whole year group out as contacts of case (most year groups as insisted on all 60 mixing rather than just 30)
5-6 for reason specific to her, but were supoosed to be 2 days and day 2 was cancelled for all kids.
She is awaiting diagnoses. So yes really crap overall.
Luckily her y7 transition is not one of the strike days -it is that week though. But sports day is..,........ Which moves to alternative but parents will have arranged and booked off with maybe 3 weeks to go. In all 7 years - incl covid this will be first year used alternate, (obv missed 2020 one)
I dont agree with teacher strikes as y 13-2 have had so much missed already. Its taking the piss. My youngest has missed 0 strike days, eldest missed 2. (Which i used to do about 4 sats maths papers a day so actually helped dc. )
But dc1 hates school so really not helping with-you have to go attitude.
Education is sh*.
Here there are no places at ok school for secondary, so dc is forced to go it 'require improvement ' however i actually dont care about ofsted rating. It's that there is no min standard of offering. Or uniform. Or standard day. Acroos all schools
So school she is going to has:
Uniform that possibly going to be refused
Only learn 1 lang
Cant do gcse or a level computing
Has lunch break crazy late
Doesnt set for science
No swimming at all
Both schools enforce girls doing football and rugby.
Wtaf is going on.
And yet they 'wonder' why they are less popular.
They have an asd unit but even so parents with ehcp are choosing the other school.
Other local schools you cant get to by public transport. Or still dont offer other lang or select on particular postcode or have only 29 in whole year doing a lang so unlikely to make up a a level group etc.
Gov building loads of housing so predicting which schools you can get in..??
I could tell school are not happy that their sen numbers have increased so dramatically. But that is across the board in state. And with 2 yr waits for diagnosis.
There's a kid in dc year who didnt sit SATs so y2 or below standard. Yet neither secondary streams so that kid will go into main classes. (It's not due to covid missed school, however he is still also awaiting various diagnoses. ). Surely he cannot pass gcse from this point as he is 4 years behind with 5 years till the test.
Setting for english would be easier for teachers and enable him and others to catch up. Even a loose setting with passed sats/exceeding/not sat them.
There is in fact another dc who didnt sit them but they have eng as foreign lang effectively as just appeared in y6. So good chance of catch up.
Somewhat bizzarely schools are setting for pe. Which while great is maybe not as crucial.
Overa!l the rates of sen or diagnosis has shot up.
Ive recently seen some awful behaviour from NT kids at an activity and its a miracle they get volunteers. (Too many kids for all to have SN). And local school punishes for physically fighting but nothing for verbal mean words. So one dc goes to the other as child 2 first day in their group 'oh its x, the most hated boy in the school'. The leader has to have heard and said nothing. Apparently the boy is unpopular so making it worse. And this not banter or a joke. Boy 1 continued with similar behaviour.
Honestly teaching would be a hard career choice. But issues are more the above behaviour/sen/ parents/ not able to exclude/ long waitlists/
Its not the pay putting people off. And pay is even better considering holidays.
Now it will also be -
not able to work from home...
Not flexible for drop off and pick up
Behaviour
Sen
Couldnt retrain with a 2-2 --think thats changed
Cant do cheap or free degree or alevels at colleges
Where women used to work to age 60 (my mum retired from teaching at 50) when planning a career do i think i could be a class teacher at 68++++ depending on gov changes to retirement.
Cant take cheap term time holidays when your kids are 1-5.
Also kids with behaviour issues/ or some sen kids can set each other off. So say where dc1 went on camp child A with adhd and child B (cheeky) knicked kids sweets.
Escalated till several other kids had done this too. 1 slightly impulsive kid who is youngest in year. All the kids were told off, warned about being sent home.
But if we think of kids experience of school. .
Primary
Come in do starter work.
Sit where teacher says
no talking
do pe - no training on how to catch etc
No supervion by teachers at breaks. No punishment for verbal stuff
No playground games (no ropes etc, rota for using play equipment
Still no choice where to sit.
Sit particular place on carpet (uncomfortable)
Cant see the book to read along
Classes altered almost yearly so if shy often lose friends or never got to be in class with some
No stretch above curriculum so for homework for mathletics would still get set that year work
no incentive to get kids from meeting to exceeding
there is incentive to manipulate reading levels to make it look like progrees.
Secret extra booster lessons and clubs for good/ bad students
Sexism against girls re maths ability.
Lack of expectation that kid can improve from met to exceeding.
swimmers tested and then good ones get no primary lessons
Some of this is due to gov data
There was no social skills taught in reception or after - precovid. And imo this is why y6 is so bad! Just 'no fighting' is nowhere near enough.
Secondary?
Pe including no swimming but for girls compulsory football and rugby
Sets for sports so kids know you are rubbish
Uncomfortable uniform
Some schools making kids wear blazers in class!
Two week timetables
Lots of noise
Huge schools
Classes of 32 for some subjects
Little flexibility to drop subjects you cant do
School specific - lunch really late, probably csnt get food and eat in time
Loads of 'tutor time' -- boring
One school not enouvh lockers so kids travelling by bus nowhere to put stuff (presumably incl pe kit or coats)
Girls uniform wearing tie - but no option for tracksuit bottoms just leggings
Decisions about kids doing subjects based on ks2 results -- which some parents didnt realise were important
Not enough toilets-- sharing unisex.
My dad was talking about secondary modern school - london hes 80
Pe was only gym. Other sports after school lunch etc and choices. He didnt then do rugby
It was a boys school with girls next door.
Girls did girls sports
Results in primary read out so knew class position
I think girls only education needs to be looked at.
The lower generally rates in girls is masking how bad the situation is
The uncomfortable truth being we know/suspect asd is linked to older parents (we were only 33 and then both 35 for dc2.
And if we dont reverse this trend of later babies there will have to be significant increases in school funding and reopening of sen schools.
And - faster acknowledgments of issues in toddlers (some parents might not choose to have a dc2). My own dc1 was tricky from birth and hyper, never slept etc.
Hopefully genetic testing will help and having more parents diagnosed will help when making decisions about having kids. For eg relative with adhd going out with someone whose child has adhd. Might consider the impact of having another likely (??) Adhd child. And age gap etc.
Now say i know dp has adhd on his side and maybe asd too, would we have had kids as there are strong asd traits on my side.
In a literal sense the strikes are slightly worsening kids behaviour locally, as several parents are allowing kids to stay unsupervised at park all day. In a way that doesnt happen at weekends as kids do activities.
Dc2 is very likely also ND but is clinging on at school.
I think there has been a change to work where many choose to do minimum (in lots of jobs not specific to education). And parents doing minimum
But in education obviously you can see impacts. You cant just let nursery age roam. Nor reception. Just too many kids for that. Same with general breaks for older kids.
We had a coulle of near misses at nursery and an op at primary due to lack of supervision. (Note not having that happen in our care with obviously taking kids out by roads/having much more stuff at home to get injured on.)
At reception age almost an arrogance that even trips will be fine as not asking parents of tricky kids do we have concerns (so one ran off- pretty predictable really). Just no interest in being told about concerns from parents.
And back to topic re transition to secondary despite diagnosis referral i dont think dc will get extra transition (also req by ed psych) as
1 we actually didnt get letter about even summer sessions (suspiciously)
2 one transition event was on day of appeal hearing and it was only sport which dc hates
3 ive not been asked yet (similar to reception) about concerns.
Similar in oitside school activity never been asked about sn. And when i mentioned anxiety dc was excluded within 3 weeks. But also a comment that dc doesnt have SN! Im sure lots of parents dont disclose everything to activities as its often just - on waitlist.
Having your own dc that might run off for eg is stressful, understanding which dc out of 60 might do that much more so. Takes certain personality to cope with that taking seriously. As i note with guiding and scouts there have been some dangerous situations and similar to school it takes certain adults to cope.