My husband has been offered the job we have always dreamed off running the museum with the best archaeological collection in the world (Devizes) rather than seeing all the sensible ideas and plans in his government quango destroyed and spending his life commuting and doing daft things like driving to Stanstead at 3.30 am frequently!! However, we have 3 sons and the oldest has aspergers and struggles to cope socially at school, rejects support and I do not feel achieves his potential, he is predicted C grades. If we move in a few months I do not think he could cope with a different syllabus in his very coursework based GCSEs (double applied art, graphics and geography). unfortunately he is a Sep baby therefore likely to be the oldest in his year, but is not very mature for his age. He is statemented. Would secondary schools contemplate putting a child who moved at this time down a year? We would be moving from oxon to Wilts.