Hi, so I got my son’s high school choice today and it was our 2nd choice and I want some advice on appealing this. The first choice school is about the same distances but works better with my working pattern and travel time when dropping older child off too, means I’m not running about in circles. The first choice school also supplies every pupil with a laptop with will massive help my son with his writing and spelling and other educational support. He will not get this equipment at his given school. I can drop my son at the door to our first choice and I can not at the given school. Everyday he says he hates school and has a belly ache and then poops, I help him with this by offering reassurance and cuddles at the gate, which I’m sure will change at high school as it will do nothing for his street cred! Lol. His attendance is pretty much 100% because of my assurance and if I’m not at least dropping him in a school car park, he may struggle. His probably borderline autistic/dyslexic (primary school said high risk for dyslexic) but never followed up and recently I was told I had to take him to the GP to be diagnosed. His very bright and isn’t stupid at all, his issue is only putting it on paper…
Also my daughters school has earlier and late finishes that mean I have to wait for over an hour on two days of the week if he goes to the school his been given. However the school his been given is next door to my daughters, one’s a girls school and ones a boys school. You would think based on distance it would be better or finish at the same times, but it doesn’t. I don’t have any issue with the school his been given.
I prefer mixed sexed schools and not same but my daughter is happy. However the first choice school is also on my way to work and I won’t have to hang about waiting and no finishing early or lates to worry about.
It’s mainly the laptop support that swung this school for me.
I have accepted the given school as I would rather him go here than any other school, I have added him to the waitlist to our first choice school and I need to work on the worded to get how I’m feeling across.
I would be so grateful for any help or advice, thanks in advance. And thanks for reading to the bottom too… x x