We live in an 11+ area. My dd passed by 2 marks and went to grammar school - her friend failed by 2 marks and went to the High school. I would have been happy enough if dd had gone to the high school - results are fine if you take into account that 25% of the more able children have been creamed off. Behaviour is OK - it'a a generally OK school. DD and her friend have been doing homework together on and off and the work looks comparable (friend is in the top sets) DD does two languages in year 7, friend does one - and dd may be working at a slightly faster pace. I know that dd is heading for 3 separate sciences and friend will do combined. And dd will start Latin next year. But apart from that I couldn't see a huge difference. I was surprised - I expected there to be a bigger difference in the work but pleased.
But yesterday, we spent the day with friend and her family for the first time since they started year 7. It turns out that the huge difference int he schools is in the non academic stuff. The grammar school has 3 choirs, two orchestras, a jazz band, a swing band, a wind ensemble and 3 rock groups. The high school has no extra curricular music at all. Dd has completed 3 DT projects since she started in September - friend is still on the first one. Grammar puts on three plays a year - high school does one. Grammar school puts teams forward for every schools sporting event in the county - high school football and basketball only. The list just went on - even to how much cooking they actually do in Food Tec.
Does anyone know why this is? Am I incredibly naive in assuming that both schools get the same amount of funding? And WHY does jumping through a ridiculous academic hoop one January day in year 6 mean that you get to do more cooking? I could understand if it meant you do more Maths.......!!!!!