Discipline at Boarding School

[Alanauk]

My daughter is at a boarding school and she called me this week telling me that she snapped and threw her phone through the window (in anger from something she was doing) and broke a window. Her room is in a second floor so the glass could have fallen on someone. It was all an accident but of course, she should be punished. Do you think she could be suspended this? I cannot sleep thinking about this and the housemistress has not decided yet on a sanction. This is her first year boarding and everything for us is very new.

I’d be very surprised, but expect a new windows pane on the school bill.

I’d be really concerned at that sort of violent, destructive behaviour from a child. Is she getting support to help manage her frustration? I’d expect the school to take it quite seriously to be honest

Why are you worrying about the bill instead of why she had such a violent outburst?

That is very worrying behaviour. I would have been on the phone to the school straight away, but you're waiting for them to contact you with a bill and/or sections for your daughter?

Does she even want to be at boarding school?

Sanctions not sections, sorry for typo.

Of course I have contacted the school but they have not made a decision yet. We are getting a psychologist too. She has always managed her anger... I don't know what happened. I am not worried about any bills, more worried about a sanction being fair for her action. Not at all justifying anything.

She loves the school and loves the sports and classes. Really happy in school. But in teh end,a teenager who may need to have some counseling.

@GreenFingersWouldBeHandy the OP didn’t mention ‘the bill’. That was a different poster.

I don’t know, @Alanauk , I guess they’ll make a decision based partly on how she usually behaves and whether this was a one-off. Also on whether there was any aggression towards any other pupil or member of staff.

But you might have been better to post this thread in the Boarding School topic - to avoid its being derailed.

I will do that! thank you!!

I'd be co car Ed, really concerned about her behaviour if it's unusual particularly.
If she's often like that then she needs to learn a lesson

This isn't normal teen behaviour to be honest. Does she get angry a lot?