I have been sent your way for tips, sorry for jumping on as a new user and immediately asking for help.
The background is, we live in a three-tier school system, whereby the children move to Upper School in year 9. There is only a girls' school and a boys' school in our town, the only co-ed options are in different towns and are two-tier so start in year 7. There is a co-ed school in a nearby village that used to do a second intake for year 9 but my DD got caught up in a transition period whereby the school stopped the year 9 intake but she was already in year 7 so we missed the chance to apply then. We immediately applied for her to go on a waiting list to transfer. She has been around 30th on the list for two years.
She did not want to go to a girls' school, all of her friends at middle school were boys and she struggles with female friendships. As predicted, she is now year 9 and at the girls' school and having a horrendous time. Bullying, lack of support, her attendance is awful (having been 100% throughout her entire school life) and her MH is diminishing. We have appealed to the Borough and have an appeal date in two weeks.
The admissions team from the school called me to manage my expectations and said she is still 27th on the list in a school where no one leaves. They do, however, have room for boarders in her year group (it's a state day school for some, and others pay for board Mon-Friday). My argument is, if they have space for boarders then there is space in the class for her.
I assume my stance needs to be why this school is best for her because.... rather than she can't continue to go to the girls' school because... ?
Any tips are gratefully received, many thanks in advance.