I have a DS who is 14 and in year 9. Last night was parents evening. Almost every teacher said that he loses concentration and focus in class, and sometimes this leads to behaving disruptively. Most teachers have had to move him to front of class to stop him drifting off and to hold his attention. He does get back to him work when pulled up on it/reminded and behaves appropriately for the rest of the lesson.
Academically, he is doing well in the core subjects like science, maths, english etcm but falling behind it subjects he doesnt' like, French, RE, comp science, etc. He is generally considered to be pretty able and top set in maths in a grammar school.
This has been an ongoing issue for a while now and I'm starting to wonder, alongside his behavious at home, whether there is an underlying issue.
He is disorganised, forgetful, acts irrationally, forgets to feed himself if left alone and gets so hungry he can't think straight and gets hangry, does things in the wrong order etc
He is able to concentrate when doing things he likes, for example, he can focus on reading for ages before bed and he will read challenging books, will play highly complex board games and win every time, so it's not like he doesn't know how to focus.
But his general behaviour at home is causing us a lot of stress and the behaviour at school is also concerning.
If he does intense exercise he is much better behaved generally. He goes running once or twice a week and playes cricket a couple of times a week, and there is an obvious difference in behaviour after exercise.
Is there a glaringly obvious issue here that needs addressing? If it's just general teen behaviour, what can we do to help him focus more in class?
Any advice would be great!