Hi all,
I have been dealing with this for a couple of months, do you mind if I ask for advice please?
Should I let the school follow their process, or should I get more involved/private tutor etc in the face of the CAT flagging up a warning?
- My son scored below average in the year 7 CAT test.
- The way CAT scores were explained to me is that they can hint at a future possible problem to learning, rather than an immediate problem.
- My son is intelligent and has always peformed well in Maths and English and in real life he is excellent communicator with adult-like verbal reasoning.
- The school's reaction to the CAT score was to pull him out of some lessons as an intervention.
- We are grateful that the school spotted this, the disappointing aspect is they made these changes without informing us.
- The unfortunate knock-on effect has been the cause of stress to our son.
- He went from believing he excelled at Maths and English, to suddenly being told he has some issues, and the school haven't explained to us or my son.
- The work in these intervention classes are so basic that my son just doesn't understand why he is being asked to do such basic easy work.
- I spoke to the school to try and get some more details and ask if we can look at explaining to us/our son so he has an understanding of what is happening.
- We got some high-level information and I was able to explain it in terms my son understood as to why he needed to attend some different lessons.
- I protected his feelings, but also explained that we all need help. It did the trick. We are an open family and always discuss together topics like this.
- Unfortunately, later in the academic year the school made some more changes to my son's curriculum by taking him out of his tutor class, disappointginly they didn't inform us and the effect on my son has been to creep in some self-doubt as to why he was put in an IDT class.
- My son's perception of this IDT class is it contains children with serioues learning difficulties, and some are unruly.
- It's been a challenge to keep my son's feet on the ground, to explain perceptions and judging people is unfair - I won't go into the details.
- Again, without the school's help I have tried to rationlise the change with my son, but he is beside himself - he's calling himself all sorts of derogitory names.
- I can almost see right before my eyes my son going from a child that loved school he has become disinterested and lost some of his confidence.
I had no preconceptions about the CATs. And of course Googling presents everything from how great they are all the way to taking care when taking their results too literally.
I am trying to fast forward in time and look back without hindsight, as it were, "what is the right thing to do now", "what will I regret not doing".
I believe the schools intentions are good, but I have lost some confidence in their ability to consider both the mental impact as well as the educational needs of my son.
I hope I am lucid about the situation we find ourselves in, and ordinarily my approach to schooling is totally positive, letting the school lead the way. Not that I am approaching this negatively, but I just feel my son is just being treated like a number.
Am I being too precious?
The way I see it is we have three approaches...
- I find a way to reconcile my son's worries and have him attend what the school believe is right.
- I get a private tutor to help.
- Is a retest worth considering? Do I sound like an overbearing parent if I think the test might not have been taken seriously by my son?
Any advice would really be appreciated. I feel torn for my feelings of allowing the school to follow their process but my instinct tells me they are making the situation worse.
I wish I could understand the details of the CAT score but I also appreciate the school must start from a baseline to figure out what help my son might need. But by the same token, I know my son - he's intelligent, he only needs showing a concept once and if you've got his attention and interest he'll then commit Maths and English to memory. Personally, I believe my son didn't take the CATs seriously and just casually entered any answer!! He's an all or nothing type of person. But I worry I am biased.
Long story, sorry.
Thank you :)