Hi, thinking ahead here and just an outline: we have been offered 2nd choice and are appealing 1st choice under medical grounds. We are also 4th on the waiting list for 1st choice.
Having looked further into choice 2, I cannot believe I have overlooked a few things with regards their policies on children with medical needs (or lack of policy in this case!). It actually looks like choice 3 would be more appropriate for her if we were unsuccessful. We have today asked for daughter to be added to waiting list for choice 3 - I don't even know if we're allowed to do this seeing as we have a higher up offer??
So my question is firstly, can we go onto the waiting list for choice 3 even though we had an offer for choice 2? Will we be at the bottom (I've looked and we are well under the last distance offered for the last 5 years and the other criteria is the usual looked after children/ siblings/ medical need etc which I'm assuming the places will already be filled with these children?)
And also what would happen if we withdraw our place at choice 2? The more I look at it and ask questions (yes, I should've done this before but I had 6 months of my mum losing a horrible, short battle against cancer and my life was a mess) the more I feel choice 3 would definitely be better for daughter is we aren't successful with appealing choice 1.
I'm kicking myself and feel so guilty that I'm letting my daughter down. Plus time is moving so slowly, this is consuming me!
Thanks for any input