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Can DD drop a GCSE and still get into Uni?

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BoofTheFloof · 18/02/2022 14:43

Dd 16 has ADHD. It was a late diagnosis at the beginning of lockdown and it took a while to get her medication that worked. The ADHD was diagnosed as she was actually seeing a psychiatrist for depression and self harm which appears to have been triggered by her stress at failing in school and feeling "stupid" and getting into trouble for not focusing in class.
Properly medicated she's now happy and has managed to catch up well in most subjects. Predicted grades range from 8/9 (geography) to a 5/6 (maths) with one exception- history.
History has been a catastrophe for her. There's a huge amount of content being delivered by a very dry teacher (in fairness he provides the children with massive amounts of revision materials etc, but just as big walls of text that she struggles to engage with)
She couldn't engage with online history during lockdown and has failed to catch up. She hates it and it's begun to upset her. I've just spent all day trying to help her gather things for revision and practice for paper 2 and it's a disaster. She's got no sense of how it all fits and very little of what she learnt has stuck (memory is an issue with ADHD) For example she worked for days on her coursework essay and got a 6- we've gone back to the time period she wrote about (the Great Depression and Germany) and she's retained nothing. She was fine writing with the materials in front of her but it hasn't stuck.
I anticipate it's going to take hours and hours just to get her to at best a level 4/5. These are hours she needs to focus on other subjects as well.
I'm thinking of suggesting she drops history and just does 8 GCSE. This is likely to improve a few of her grades in the remaining subjects as history takes a disproportionate amount of time. However she would like to go to university. The school is confident she'll do well in the A level subjects she's picked but would only having 8 GCSEs rule out the better universities? Do they have minimum GCSE requirements?

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Comefromaway · 18/02/2022 18:54

Not all schools have libraries or staff to supervise them.

TizerorFizz · 18/02/2022 18:55

It clearly says your GCSEs are considered when the application is assessed. I would imagine course info is specific GCSEs. For example, someone I know did Mechanical Engineering MEng with French. He didn’t need French A level but did need gcse French. I think that’s what course specific info means.

I would also think some less competitive universities might ignore gcse results as they offer to everyone!

Susu49 · 18/02/2022 18:56

Fair point

Hercisback · 18/02/2022 18:56

We have a library but no one to supervise. That's why kids get a blanket no.

Bonkerz · 18/02/2022 19:00

DS did 5 GCsE. All high grades then did a BTEC and 2 A levels.
He starts uni in sept doing forensic science.

BurbageBrook · 18/02/2022 19:25

Yeah I’d drop it, 100%.

clary · 18/02/2022 23:07

Op as others say, it will be fine. If a specific uni looks at GCSEs for a specific course (and I imagine many do not) then they will be looking st grades and possibly subjects (such as the MFL example above) rather than number.

As others say, plenty of schools only offer eight GCSEs anyway - increasingly so.

MN is funny sometimes and to read some sections you would think all children with any ability get 10 X 9 at GCSE. Someone the other day posted saying as her child did not get all 9s (she also got some 8s😯😯) she couldn't apply to Oxford or Durham. Luckily in the real world that's not correct.

BoofTheFloof · 18/02/2022 23:56

@clary

Op as others say, it will be fine. If a specific uni looks at GCSEs for a specific course (and I imagine many do not) then they will be looking st grades and possibly subjects (such as the MFL example above) rather than number.

As others say, plenty of schools only offer eight GCSEs anyway - increasingly so.

MN is funny sometimes and to read some sections you would think all children with any ability get 10 X 9 at GCSE. Someone the other day posted saying as her child did not get all 9s (she also got some 8s😯😯) she couldn't apply to Oxford or Durham. Luckily in the real world that's not correct.

Thank you @clary ! DD is at a reasonably academic selective school and it has impacted her mental health. The late ADHD diagnosis meant she spent a few years feeling like a complete failure - she scraped through the entrance exam with the help of a sports scholarship and I think sometimes her perfectly good predicted grades of between 8-5 make her feel somehow stupid which is terrible. She's overcome a lot and is frankly fabulous and I don't want her struggling though something she HATES if she doesn't have to. However I also don't want her to turn round in 3 years time and complain that she can't go somewhere she wants to because of the missing GCSE!

I will speak to her head of year when they're back next week. I'm fairly certain the school will be supportive.

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