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Revision (GCSE year) without getting distracted?

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akg1123 · 15/10/2021 09:02

Hi, looking for some advice, particularly from anyone with a DD/DS with ADHD or who generally finds that they just can't stop going down rabbit holes when they are meant to be revising? Relatively recent ADHD diagnosis but meds not working v well and not much chance of that changing before mocks. DD is a high achiever, high aspirations, spends all her time working or trying to work but not effectively. She doesn't have her phone on but the laptop remains a huge source of distraction that she then beats herself up over later/panics at the last minute when she realises what she's done.

I am well aware the importance of teens learning self discipline but with ADHD it isn't so simple.

How possible is it to revise without using the laptop ie to remove the distraction (though I do realise it is not a sustainable approach long term)? Does anyone have a DS/DD who has really struggled with this and found a way through? We've tried things like pomodoro in the past, without success.

thank you

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languagelover96 · 15/10/2021 12:54

flashcards

TeenMinusTests · 15/10/2021 18:19

My suggestions based on things that helped easily distractable dyspraxic DD1

  • revision guides
  • 1-1 revision with you
  • have a different laptop account for revision which has distractors not accessible. Accounts can be set to have accessible hours, so the 'fun' access could be only from 7pm-9pm in the week for example. This is hard though as some sites rely on youtube videos...
  • clear goals for each session, so not 'revise chemistry' but 'revise flame tests and be able to give substances to given reactions and reactions to substance.
  • flash cards with question on one side and answer on the other so they can't fool themselves by just rereading and thinking they know it
  • testing by you after a revision session
BonnesVacances · 15/10/2021 22:57

Placemarking to remind me to come back to this. DS has ADHD and did a revision workshop which I made him go to with a really clear structure for revision. It turned him around and he aced his mocks last year as a result. Each revision session was very structured and only lasted an hour. So I'll ask him about it and come back.

Akg1123 · 16/10/2021 10:30

@BonnesVacances

Placemarking to remind me to come back to this. DS has ADHD and did a revision workshop which I made him go to with a really clear structure for revision. It turned him around and he aced his mocks last year as a result. Each revision session was very structured and only lasted an hour. So I'll ask him about it and come back.
Thanks all for your suggestions much appreciate it. She already uses flashcards and finds them helpful but the computer issue remains the biggest problem. BonnesVacances that would be really helpful thank you if you are able to share anything.
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WeAllHaveWings · 16/10/2021 10:54

The first thing ds does before he sits down to revise is quickly work out a plan for that day, something like -

40-50 mins Maths - questions 1-10, mark and write down areas that need further study
15 min break - quick walk with dog to get some fresh air
40-50 mins Geography - write up study notes on y
20 min break - eat dinner
40-50 mins English - write essay plan for introduction and paragraph 1

He works best in shorter sessions where he has set in advance what he is going to achieve during that session and then finishes before his mind starts to wander, he will keep going if he is remaining focussed. We try to accommodate by timing dinner to be between sessions when we can.

BonnesVacances · 17/10/2021 11:07

Coming back as promised! DS did an online workshop with a child psychologist who is really excellent and is all about tying in behaviours and strategies with how the brain works. DS has ADHD and really appreciated the structure and how this seemed to gel with how his brain works.

1. She said to keep reminding yourself that the best and easiest way to learn anything is when you're in school, it's not taking up any of your free time and you're being taught it by a teacher. Otherwise you end up having to re-learn it yourself when you're revising which is not what you want as it's time-consuming, is in your own time, and is doubling the effort.

2. When devising a revision timetable, write all your upcoming exams on a calendar and circle the ones that you feel less confident about. This focuses your mind and efforts on those subjects, instead of putting them off because they're the hardest or your least favourite. You'll need to factor in more sessions for these subjects. It's better if you do this rather than your parents as it's the first step to engaging with a revision plan.

3.Then plan a series of 1-hour revision sessions, making sure you also plan in downtime, usual activities you do inside/outside the home, ie football, gaming etc. It's important to realise that if you plan properly you will still have time to do all the things you usually enjoy doing.

If you are an early bird, plan a couple of sessions first thing in the morning so you have your afternoons and/or evenings free. If you like to sleep in, plan your sessions for when you get up so your mornings and evenings are free.

It will help you if you see big spaces in your day for fun or gaming and so you don't feel revision is taking over all your spare time. Share your plan with your parents so they know not to disturb you during your 1-hour revision sessions, or nag you about not revising when you're having fun.

4. Each 1-hour revision session is structured as follows:

30 mins revising (not re-learning if you have followed point 1) This is the time your brain is absorbing information and the maximum time it can do this effectively before becoming saturated. Leave your phone outside the room where you are revising so there are no distractions. It's only an hour and then you can pick it up again and catch up on anything you've missed.

5 mins break This is the time when your brain is storing the information you've absorbed and filing it away. Down all tools, but stay in the same revision space to keep you focussed. Move around the room. Kick a ball, throw screwed up paper into a bin, play an instrument. Moving is key as it re-energises the blood flow to the brain.

20 mins testing This time is spent strengthening the recall pathways so that when the content comes up in the exam your brain knows where to go to retrieve the information. Use exam questions, online tests, anything to force you to retrieve and test the information you've learnt in the session.

5 mins summary This time is spent writing notes or revision cards for later use and looking at before you sit the exam. If you have completed the other stages properly, they're not for revision but just to remind your brain that the information is stored in there and where to retrieve it.

End of revision session If you have planned your timetable, you should have something fun and interesting to do now. And you can get your phone and catch up on all the messages and events you missed over the past hour (there will be fewer than you think!)

Leave a minimum of 1 hour between revision sessions, but if you plan your revision well and start well before your exams, you could have longer.

Akg1123 · 17/10/2021 11:44

Thank you very much everyone and Bonnesvacances for all the detail - really helpful. Our fundamental problem is the meds aren't doing much which is disappointing but we just have to do what we can in terms of techniques. The lure of the computer remains an ongoing issue though...

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Enterifyoudare · 17/10/2021 11:50

Take notes off the computer.

The only way I ever took anything in whilst revising was by writing it down. So get her to make notes off the computer or print them off. Copy them by writing them out, then do it again, and again and again.

Also encourage her to be realistic about what she can achieve. I used to beat myself up so much about not achieving the ridiculously high standards I set for myself. I still do now TBH. Rest and breaks are just as important in revision.

Get her to have a look at which ones are her strongest and weakness subjects. Encourage her to focus on the weakest ones and spend most of her time on those. The strongest ones will need less time.

BonnesVacances · 17/10/2021 12:54

@Akg1123

Thank you very much everyone and Bonnesvacances for all the detail - really helpful. Our fundamental problem is the meds aren't doing much which is disappointing but we just have to do what we can in terms of techniques. The lure of the computer remains an ongoing issue though...
That sounds really hard. Maybe your DD will manage to stay off if she keeps reminding herself it's only for an hour? If she has to use the computer because she finds it easier to study on one, I used to use a separate account that didn't have any bookmarks or distractions.

But the key thing is that if it's broken down into small structured chunks the level of self-control required for that period is lessened. And as time goes on and she starts to feel the time spent doing it that way is more constructive, it'll spur her on to continuing to do it that way.

Does she use a fidget object while studying? These are amazing for helping them to focus. The popping toys are the current ones people with ADHD are using.

Akg1123 · 22/10/2021 19:16

Thanks Bonnesvacances x

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