DD is year 11. She is bright (predicted mainly 7s and 8s, potentially a 9 in one subject) and has 1 GCSE already. However she doesn't seem to have any idea what she wants to do next.
She is artistic but says most subjects are boring. I can't think of 3 that she shows enough enthusiasm for to pursue at A level. She definitely doesn't want to do maths or sciences.
The school (and it seems the whole town!) is quite high achieving academically and I feel there is an expectation that everyone will do GCSEs - ALevels - university, and especially as she is academically bright i feel that will be the expectation for her.
I am mindful that its been a difficult year (with home learning in year 10) and they are under pressure with up coming mocks that I don't want to put her under more pressure to decide, but equally I don't want her feeling she has to make a rushed decision.
When I was her age I was similarly (although maybe not quite as) bright and did well in GCSEs. I think at that point my teachers and parents would have expected me to go to university. But I found the step up to A levels really challenging and suffered with depression and MH problems, and took some of my A levels in hospital. I decided not to go to university (and have never regretted it) but I know in the back of my mind I think of that period as quite scary and stressful which doesn't help when I want to advise her of all the options and opportunities!