Dds just entered yr 7 and we found out just at the very end of yr 6 that they have mixed age tutor groups. This is a semi rural comp where her primary was one of the bigger feeder schools.
Dd1 was put into a group with only 5 other yr 7s, only one of which was from her primary and 3 of them are boys (she is a very girly girl and doesn't have that many boy mates). Of the 2 girls, one is sat in a designated seat the other side of the class and she made friends with the other one in summer school. However that girl has been moved into a different tutor group for reasons unknown.
Dd1 is now sat by a yr 10 who is pretty brusque and no one else who will talk to her in her near vicinity.
She has been pretty upset by this - for context she experienced some low level but constant bullying from one of the boys in her yr 6 class which her teacher told her to 'ignore and stop getting in his way'. As a consequence she didn't tell me how bad this was until the summer holidays so I am very aware of advocating properly for her. However, I've also been telling her it's only 10 minutes, it's early days, she can manage it and she's got lots of friends waiting for her in class to try and build a bit of resilience
I spoke to her head of house today and explained a bit of background and how miserable she is because I didn't want her to feel like I hadn't listened. He was very sympathetic and had already a chat with her (he teaches her). He is going to talk to her tutor, get her moved around a little bit but wants her to stay in the same tutor group for now at least to give it a chance to settle but the door is open to revisit if it doesn't.
I was pleased with this outcome as he took the issue seriously and gave me a plan (and she's not being picked on, she's just a bit isolated) but dh thinks they should have moved her into a group with her friends immediately. He also thinks vertical tutor groups are a recipe for disaster and that of course no one will ever talk to her.
I'd be interested to hear other experiences and whether anyone else has any solutions or suggestions to make her life bearable.