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SW/SE London or Surrey indy schools for academic DD with SN

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minipie · 03/09/2021 13:15

DD is only y4 but I am starting to think about secondaries because she is quite complicated! And because we may need to move area to access the “right” school or schools.

She is naturally academic, loves learning, top sets in high achieving London prep. English and VR/non VR are especially strong but maths is also pretty good. Very chatty and outwardly confident.

But. She has cerebral palsy which has is pretty mild physically but has other effects. She gets very tired and homework past 5/5.30pm is a battle. She is quite impulsive and reactive and can get anxious and wound up very easily (I have wondered about ADHD). Some sensory behaviours - hums, fiddles. From recent school reports it seems some of her teachers love her, but others find her able but a bit annoying (reading between the lines!!)

She will need teachers who are willing to take the time to work with bright but “non standard issue” children to get the best out of them, and be understanding of the impact of her condition.

Are there any London or inner Surrey independent schools that would fit the bill? Are any of the more academic schools particularly good with SN? I love the look of Wimbledon High for example, but it’s hugely selective so perhaps may not be great with SN even if she got in? KGS the same? Emanuel is near us, and the 10+ option appeals, but again not sure how it does with slightly trickier children? Also looking at schools further west (the clusters near Hampton or Kingston) or Surrey schools if they run buses into SW London.

Of course, I know the 11+ is a bunfight and so we will need to apply for several anyway… but it would be great to get some ideas for where we might consider.

Thank you

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Mary19 · 20/11/2021 12:43

I know a girl who did well at Putney High and needed lesssupport than anticipated. Another who did well at LEH but that was a long while back. I think you really need to talk to the schools. Meet their head learning support. Don’t convince them to take your DD really listen to see if she will be welcomed. If she is very bright they should be interested in her brain and making it work. If not avoid

minipie · 20/11/2021 12:45

Ok so based on this thread and PMs I have a little shortlist of academic schools who may be supportive of SEN needs - thank you all

She has got average CAT of 130 with 141 in verbal and 123-130 in the others. No extra time.

I think the next step is speaking to SENCos at the various schools

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minniesdragg · 20/11/2021 12:57

Priors Field in Godalming is a good school but Maths Dept weren't any use for dyscalculia apart from one teacher whose own daughter has it. We had to get extra tutoring from Unicorn Maths in Putney to get her through her GCSE. Several years ago now though.

Hongkonggal · 20/11/2021 13:24

@RosesAndHellebores

I have heard good things about Ibstock and also St John's Leatherhead. From families with high functioning asd children and those not hugely into sport.
I have to say I have never heard a single good thing about Ibstock and SEN- quite the opposite in fact. May change under the new head I suppose.
RosesAndHellebores · 20/11/2021 19:12

Oh that goes back at least five years. I have friends with a dyslexic/dyspraxic child and others with an ASD/ADHD child. Perhaps I should caveat it with the fact that one was the younger sibling of a boy at KCS and the other transferred from KCS. Perhaps the parents were not comparing apples with pears.

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