Hi everyone, can I join?
A bit of background... I have three DC, in Sept they will be starting Y7, Y9 and then my eldest DS is obviously starting Y11 (I am on the right thread...aren't I? 🤔)
DS1 started high school having had excellent sats results and so being put in the 'gifted and talented' group. He's still there, as far as I'm aware, but because of his intelligence (or so I thought), I dropped the ball and kind of left him to it as my youngest DS was struggling at school at that time.
Over the last couple of years he seems to have lost all motivation and they get target grades every year- are 5 for most subjects and in assessments (its a very uncommunicative school so I don't know exactly how often they have assessment fortnight but it seems to be at least once per term) he is hovering between grade 4-6! :(
He's autistic, but because I was advised by the school that he "wasn't bad enough to need 1-1 help" I didn't bother applying for an EHCP and now it's too late to get one in place.
He does have a student passport however, which lists his needs and difficulties and he is allowed to ask for extra time in assessments (which he never uses as he's embarrassed to!).
So. I think I need to get my bum in gear and make sure he achieves his potential.
He is in the middle of the top band (they have three bands and three sub-bands, so basically he is one group below the very top people, if that makes sense?) so I feel like he should easily be able to achieve 8 or 9s.
I'm afraid all I've done is ask if he has any homework then make sure he's done it. I'm potentially neurodiverse myself so find it really hard to motivate myself and have a complete mental block when it comes to maths and sciences, I just can't comprehend that stuff so I feel I'm quite limited in how much I can actually help him revise.
It doesn't help that the school haven't let us know anything about what the children are studying, I don't know when mocks might be, nothing like that.
Is it possible to improve his grades before gcses next year and if so, can anyone give me an idea of how much 'extra' work/revision their child is doing outside of school hours and how you're helping them with their studies?
Thanks in advance.