Hello everyone
We found out lost our daughter's appeal for secondary school yesterday (all done via written submissions) and i really need to hear if anyone's DC have managed to do ok in a school that wasn't their first choice.
DD is under referral to CAHMS for as yet undiagnosed autism/adhd and severe anxiety. We are stuck because of COVID ie unable to get the appointments we needed. Plus she has been ripped apart from her entire friendship group who she relies on for pretty much everything.
None of this appeared to matter one iota to the appeals panel. Now her anxiety is spiralling - she's already showing worrying signs around food/eating and yesterday she started literally pulling chunks of hair out of her head.
I dont know what to do. I know we are still reeling from this decision and probably over emotional but to say this panel have utterly destroyed her right now feels like an understatement.
I know im rambling now and there's nothing i can do but please please just tell me if any of your DC managed to do ok in a school that wasn't their first choice??
Thanks for reading this far...