We've just had DDs report (they seem to be sent at random times). We've never had any information about what the gradings mean, how they're scored. DD is starting to lose confidence as everyone else seems to get an A in something, whereas she's at B and Cs across the board.
I'm beginning to wonder what she needs to do, in history she got 91% in her latest test, class median was around 70%, she got good or exceptional for behaviour, effort, homework and organisation. She was also classed as meeting expectations, after all that she got a B. There were similar results in 2 or 3 other subjects.
I want to encourage DD, I want to help her understand what she needs to do, but I'm genuinely baffled. We haven't had a parents evening yet this year, I tried emailing for support after the last report and got nowhere.
I'm really struggling with navigating secondary as a parent, for those of you more experienced than me, how do you approach them and ask reasonably, what the hell do you need to do to get an A.