Ds is facing the very real prospect of failing most, if not all, his GCSEs
. He is bright enough - he only just missed 11+ without a tutor, had decent grades until year 8 then gradually lost interest and motivation but was doing ok until lockdown when unbeknownst to us gave up on all things academic. I'm cross school didn't flag it sooner and of course blame myself for not realising/acting before now, but we both work long hours so had to trust him to just get on with it and naively assumed we'd hear if there was a problem. He's fine in himself (lots of friends, plays sport regularly,has a pt job etc) and I know will be gutted if he fails and we've had a million pep talks, tried bribery, threats, promises all of which he seems but take on board and agrees to, but then never does anything about it.
So, what next? He had no idea what he wants to do in life (& we always knew uni probably wasn't for him) but he won't be able to stay at sixth form unless he get decent grades so will have to leave and presumably retake the core subjects whilst doing something vocational but where do you start. He seems so young to be leaving school and I'm really sad he'll be leaving his friends and taking a different path with very limited choices.