My DD and DS are current students. The school is very well run and we are happy with it. The new headmaster is 1 or 2 years in. He replaced Sarah Thomas who had been head for 14 or so years. We were sorry to see her go but the new head is fab. He is very smiley, energetic and efficient.
Discipline: my children’s houses are run by quite strict housemaster/housemistress. Firm but fair. Alcohol, drugs and smoking are not tolerated, in my sons original year group I think 5 boys have been asked to leave (he is in sixth form now). There is a system in place called an E chart which lists each weekly prep set by subject and gives a grade/effort. Parents can check daily/monthly as they wish and see how their child is working. There is a brief monthly report.
I remember reading in the Tatler schools guide the students call the teachers by their first name. This is not correct. It’s very much Sir and Mrs Smith etc, the school isn’t stuffy but it isn’t informal.
Uniform: dress code, trousers/skirt polo shirt. No hair dye, no tattoos. Sixth form dress code is more relaxed but still no crop tops or jeans etc. It’s pretty sensible.
Sports & drama: top notch facilities, equestrian centre, squash courts, climbing wall, new pool, dozens of tennis courts, rowing on the Stour, theatre is professional level, music and art are outstanding.
My kids are science and sporty types and not at all musical or artistic but I think they enjoy the arty ambience.
Boarding at weekends: not sure, mine come home most Saturday evening for 24 hours, I know there are children who board every weekend but you should ask Bry for figures on this.
All students have a tutor they see weekly (three times a week in the first term). Both my children have great relationships with their tutor. They trust them and get great support and advice from them.
I hope this is helpful.