Y7 started well, but struggling in the second week... anyone else?

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DS got off to a really good start in his first week at secondary - we were quite surprised actually as we expected a few wobbles. He was very enthusiastic about everything, made some new friends, was confident about getting the bus, finding his way round etc, all fine.

This week is a different story though - he's been in floods of tears both mornings, not wanting to go in, saying it's horrible and scary. I think it's mainly because it's all so tiring (mentally and physically), and everything feels overwhelming when you're tired. But also after being at home for the best part of six months, after the initial excitement he's finding it hard to detach from us.

So I guess I'm just after some reassurance... is anyone else having similar experiences? Is this pretty standard for secondary starters? Is it worse this year because of all the extra weirdness?

"As a parent, this is all quite hard too as you need to step back and let them deal with so much more on their own."
So true, trying to pull back and let DS find his feet but still look out for him...

OP you mentioned that he might find it easier to be up and out if you and DH were getting up and out as well in a morning. Do you mean that you aren't getting up and dressed when he does in the morning?

Yes, definitely finding it's a balance between stepping back and giving support as and when needed.

DS finished his second week on a fairly positive note - he's starting to enjoy the lessons more, which helps massively. I know there are bound to be ups and downs over the next weeks (and months/years!) though.

LanternLights we're throwing some clothes on to walk him to his friend's house, but no not 'properly' up and out as we're both WFH (and DS leaves the house pretty early). I think DS just has to get used to the fact that he's out all day now and we're not, that's just how it is at the moment.