Thanks so much for your replies!
@dalrympy that’s really useful to get some historical context!
@Moonfacebiggins that’s really good to hear a little more about both schools, thank you.
It’s going to sound crazy but my daughter isn’t 3 yet! But we are looking to relocate permanently and I wanted to do some thorough research so that we wouldn’t be looking to move again in 7 years time! Although I do appreciate schools can change so might look very different by then. I felt a bit more comfortable with the primary school choices, they all seems to have good reputations (although any opinions on those also welcome, it’s really hard to get a mix of factual and anecdotal info when you’re not in the area). We are hoping to have another child and really want somewhere to make a long term home so I’m trying to cover all bases!
We both currently work in London although my partner would like to work at home full time and perhaps that will be possible after the current situation. The nature of my job means I need to be in the office probably 3 days a week so I do worry a little about the longer commute and being further away from my daughter if she was sick and needed picking up but I also balance this against a nice house with a big garden that I hope we would be able to give her in this area, Growing up with more access to green areas but also near to Brighton and London for culture (not to say HH doesn’t have cultural sights to offer!)
If you knew the likelihood of getting a seat on the morning commuter trains that would be interesting. And also my other concern is if I have another child are there many baby classes/playgroups etc around? Doing something most days kept me sane when on maternity leave with my first and as I’d have moved away from my friends I’d love to know what my options are in HH, the parks and outdoor space seem brilliant but I don’t know much about activities or clubs for babies/older kids.
My other half is absolutely sold on the move, he lives in Brighton for a long time and longs for a slightly less busy and less urban area than where we are in south London now. I like what I’ve seen of HH but I’m a City girl at heart so for me I’ll be sad to leave London! But I’ve got to think about what’s best for all the family and I’ll still be going in for work and meeting friends etc.
We looked at Lindfield and really liked the feel of the independent shops etc. on the high street but I worried that it was perhaps a bit too villagey for me (Coming straight from London to there) and it isn’t as straight forward to get to the train station so I think we’ve decided to look for somewhere walking distance from the station (15mins would be nice, 20 max) And hopefully we could still make use of the Lindfield shops and restaurants at the weekends.
Anyway sorry I’ve waffled on here, I’d be so grateful just for any views of what it’s like as a place to live and raise a family. My friends are all local to me now and don’t want me to move so it’s hard to discuss with them!