We have an option to move into Graveney catchment and considering it for our daughter but having done a lot of thread searching we can't find much info about how happiness amongst the kids who aren't in the top stream.
The general feeling from people not at the school seems to be that the top streamed kids are nurtured/pushed/thriving and that the lower stream kids are left to get on with it a bit. Our concern is that if we have an average student (and average is just fine in our book), do they miss out in some way. i.e. do they somehow feel inadequate when there is emphasis placed on the high flyers? It's hard to find the average kids to speak to as on the open days they always push out the super bright ones who are in every club going and are wonderful to speak to but don't really give a true picture of the general intake.
Our other option is not to move and to send our daughter to Burntwood. We think it's a great school and she could be very happy there but a single sex school isn't our preference and she is likely to know more kids at Graveney. We are out of catchment for Chestnut Grove, Dunraven and Ricards Lodge and are concerned about potential pollution levels at the new Harris academy in Colliers Wood.
If anyone is able to shed any light on how their Graveney kids or kids of friends do in the lower streams that would be amazing as polarised opinions of 'it's brilliant for the academically gifted and bit lacking for the rest' are probably a bit unfair... Thanks!